lisa35 Report post Posted September 14, 2008 currently awaiting a decision as to whether the school wec want will accept our son, they have a designated provision for kids with autsim/aspergers should know v v v soon, cant even think straight at mo, my head is masshed Hes still in current school, well, he s s going, on Friday he threw a fire extinguisher, he is so stressed its untrue, and has an internal exclusion for two days, then he s spending time in senco room But not really doing "lessons" as such, the episode friday was a result of the evening before when a couple of kids had been getting him to do stuff, and then film it on his phone, resulted in him being spat at and kicked I sshouldve rung school the next day to fore warn them, but I didnt, spose cos i feel like Im just constatnly at the school, and feel so guilty as he told the teacher at school he was angry because the boys got away with it But he refused to let me ring the parents so now, its damage limitation, protecting him from the rest of the kids, til we can get him moved God knows what will happen if we dont get the place, Im scared he will hurt hilself or someoen else, and it wont be intentional, for him its survival feel like we re so helpless, just hope its a matter of weeks now, or seriosly will take him out of school, x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Enid Report post Posted September 14, 2008 Hope things go well. Its a nightmare isnt is knowing what to report to the school and what to let go, hindsight is a wonderful thing, so dont beat yourself up. <'> Enid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flora Report post Posted September 14, 2008 lisa Just a thought. If your son is not doing lessons, and everyone is in agreement that it's the wrong placement for him (which I'm assuming they are because he is potentially moving for specialist provision) then maybe it would be an appropriate idea to have him signed off with a home tutor until an alternative placement is found. This might not be appropriate or your son, but it's maybe something you could consider. Flora Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisa35 Report post Posted September 15, 2008 [ hi, hoping to know within days, problems will be if we go to appeal, then that ll be a considertaion, but.................both work.........full time.....................may end up losing job x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NickyB Report post Posted September 15, 2008 Lisa Keeping everything crossed I'll be thinking of you <'> Nicky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
