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      Depression, Mental Health and Crisis Support   06/04/2017

      Depression, Mental Health and Crisis Support   Depression and other mental health difficulties are common amongst people on the autistic spectrum and their carers.   People who are affected by general mental health difficulties are encouraged to receive and share information, support and advice with other forum members, though it is important to point out that this exchange of information is generally based on personal experience and opinions, and is not a substitute for professional medical help.   There is a list of sources of mental health support here: <a href="http://www.asd-forum.org.uk/forum/index.php?showtopic=18801" target="_blank">Mental Health Resources link</a>   People may experience a more serious crisis with their mental health and need urgent medical assistance and advice. However well intentioned, this is not an area of support that the forum can or should be attempting to offer and we would urge members who are feeling at risk of self-harm or suicide to contact either their own GP/health centre, or if out of hours contact NHS Direct on 0845 4647 or to call emergency services 999.   We want to reassure members that they have our full support in offering and seeking advice and information on general mental health issues. Members asking for information in order to help a person in their care are seeking to empower both themselves and those they represent, and we would naturally welcome any such dialogue on the forum.   However, any posts which are deemed to contain inference of personal intent to self-harm and/or suicide will be removed from the forum and that person will be contacted via the pm system with advice on where to seek appropriate help.   In addition to the post being removed, if a forum member is deemed to indicate an immediate risk to themselves, and are unable to be contacted via the pm system, the moderating team will take steps to ensure that person's safety. This may involve breaking previous confidentiality agreements and/or contacting the emergency services on that person's behalf.   Sometimes posts referring to self-harm do not indicate an immediate risk, but they may contain material which others find inappropriate or distressing. This type of post will also be removed from the public forum at the moderator's/administrator's discretion, considering the forum user base as a whole.   If any member receives a PM indicating an immediate risk and is not in a position (or does not want) to intervene, they should forward the PM to the moderating team, who will deal with the disclosure in accordance with the above guidelines.   We trust all members will appreciate the reasoning behind these guidelines, and our intention to urge any member struggling with suicidal feelings to seek and receive approproiate support from trained and experienced professional resources.   The forum guidelines have been updated to reflect the above.   Regards,   The mod/admin team
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Hi to everybody from myself and my son!

My son is 16 years old and has Aspergers. I will not go into the whole, how he was diagnosed, what we have been through up to this point as it is all possibly too familiar a story to you so will spare you!


I have 2 other children, an 18 year old young 'lady' and a 12 year old young 'lady' - I try to have them behave like ladies you know, I do, really! :wacko: I try to ignore the thought of, what hope do they have with me as their mother.....


My son is at college on a PDC (personal development course) after gaining an incredible 8 gcse's at B and C grade this year. English was a D but you know what? Who gives a p%@p? The boy did good and we are so proud of him, we could burst!


We have our trials which is the reason I have signed up here. I find this stage of his life far more complex and upseting (all around, for him, for myself) than when he was little so have come along for some support and such.


So, hello to you all and see you around the forum.






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Thanks both.

It's been a slightly tense three weeks to say the least but his tutor says he is settling well, very quiet but then he is unless he is at home with us.

I believe his tutors think I mother him to much. I am afraid they are right but will unfortunately challenge them strongly when they accuse me of this. I get very uppity about it all and the phrase 'I am all he has' is far too easily and angrily flowing out of my mouth...

It was actually worse in the weeks of the summer holidays as he thought about going to college. The thought of it for him was worse than the actual reality of doing it. He is only there 3 days a week and in situated in the special needs section of the building. He is with other young girls and boys with similar conditions so he seems to be okay. He walked out with another lad yesterday and I was almost clapping as I saw them chatting away together.


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Hi Welshlass and welcome,


I have a 16 yr old (daughter) who's just started college on a 3 day a week Media studies course. Fingers and toes crossed things work out for you and your boy.


Take care,


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