Kerre Report post Posted November 28, 2005 she's so nasty and scary Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
~Jonathan~ Report post Posted November 28, 2005 <'> Mine is too when she wants to be Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kerre Report post Posted November 28, 2005 Mine wants to be all the time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
~Jonathan~ Report post Posted November 28, 2005 I'm sorry you have to go through that Kerre <'> Is there something you can do to ease the situation or are there things that trigger her? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kerre Report post Posted November 28, 2005 There's nothing I can do. All the time she gets nasty at me for no reason. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
~Jonathan~ Report post Posted November 28, 2005 Is there anyone you can turn to confidentially, to talk things through with? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kerre Report post Posted November 28, 2005 No. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Auriel Report post Posted November 28, 2005 my mummy is horrible aswell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Auriel Report post Posted November 28, 2005 but not all the time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest flutter Report post Posted November 28, 2005 as a mummy i knows i am hated and i bet there are really good reasons as to why she does the things that you disagree with unfortuatly as parents we do things that come across as bad evil ect to our kids , but we do it with best intentions and love for u guys take care ooh and talk to u grown ups!!!!!!!!! C xxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Auriel Report post Posted November 28, 2005 (edited) :-o Edited November 28, 2005 by Auriel Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mossgrove Report post Posted November 28, 2005 Kerre I am sorry you feel this way. My AS son often feels we are being nasty and thoughtless, especially when things are getting on top of him. When we get the chance to talk it through, he understands that that isn't the case, and it usually because in the heat of the moment he is unable to undertand why things have worked out as they have. I am sure your Mum has said/done something that has upset you. But I am equally sure that there was a good reason why things happened as they did, and I am also know your Mum isn't nasty and scary. I hope you and your mum are able to talk about it when you are feeling calmer. Simon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
barefoot wend Report post Posted November 28, 2005 O Kerre, we did have a difficult day today, didn't we? I hope we're all sorted now and that you feel better about things. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted November 28, 2005 Being a mum is the hardest job I,ve ever had to do and the most rewarding.Your dropped in at the deep end after 9mnths when the midwife hands over the baby and off you go...............not really having a clue what your supposed to do.So for the next goodness knows how many years you struggle to get it right,and I know I don,t always , you just do your best.I am sure your mum is trying to do the best she can, please try to talk to her, we only get one shot at it, and I,m sure there must be a compromise, love to you both <'> <'> Suzex. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted November 28, 2005 Auriel, on the other hand, is a paragon of virtue, who has never given me a moments trouble or worry!! Mum (the Horrible!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisann Report post Posted November 28, 2005 This mummy doesn't get " I hate you" but I get " I don't love you Mummy". Not nice so I understand how you feel. Lisa s Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gordie Report post Posted November 29, 2005 This mummy doesn't get " I hate you" but I get " I don't love you Mummy". Yeah - I feel the same about my mum as your child does about you. Perhaps it's unfair, but that's just the way I feel - can't help that. James Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest flutter Report post Posted November 29, 2005 it funny but i dont really expect to be loved all the time as a parent. It has taken me quite a while to get to that tho. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elaine1 Report post Posted November 29, 2005 aww its very difficult isnt it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites