Toni

Hi everyone thanks for the advice, gp has checked urine sample and no infection showing, interesting what you say harmony as dd has really started to develop physically over the last 6 mths so itcould definately be linked with puberty, thanks again for all of the advice, love Toni

Hi i wondered if anyone had experience with bladder control problems, this is quite a recent addition to our list dd is 10 and has not really had major problems before, she did go through bowel problems as a young child and had lactulose for years, this does still cause some problems but never bladder problems, saw gp today and he's prescribed Ditropan he said it would take awhile to work, is this a common problem? Toni

Hi marion i think you have just discribed my daughter perfectly, she is currently being assessed by cahms, but we had to have meetings in school with head teacher, senco and governors to get a referal, it is so difficult to get people to understande the difference between dd at home and school, nothing has to happen to spark the meltdowns i think it is purely the release after 6 hours of trying to fit in. i have also started to keep a dairy and try to right everything in it. DD has stress balls and animals, also shiny pebbles that she rubs but these don't always work, at the moment she has taken to cut bits of her hair off, i have taken all of the scissors away as she also hits herself and i am really worried she will start using the scissors. i do find coming on the forum helpful as it good to know that we aren't the only ones going through difficult times. love Toni <'>

Hi everyone i haven't posted for a while but have been keeping track, my dd has been having swimming lessons for about 12 mths know and it's taken until april this year for her to move from level 1-2 in the small pool to the shallow end of the big pool, she doesn't really like swimming but keeps going as she understands it's important for saftey, we haven't been for 3 weeks and when we got there this week she had forgotten everthing, couldn't remeber how to swim at all and was terrified, i went over to talk to her and she was so sad and asked if we could go home, i got upset for her she had worked so hard to move up into this class, i feel so guilty as we hadn't been for 3 weeks because, well basicily i couldn't be bothered to take her and she doesn't mind missing because she finds it so hard, know we are back to square one her swimming teacher has said not to worry that she will stay in this class and take it slow, but i'm sure this is my fault for not taking her, i never thought she would just forget everything, i should have known as sure does have memory retention prlems but it's not happened like this before, or maybe it has and i just haven't noticed, does she forget everything she learns at school over the weekends and holidays is that why she worries so much about going back to school? sorry now i'm waffling and on a guilt trip, sorry if this sounds all over the place i just keep crying everytime i think of dd at swimming she looked so sad

well done you, been thinking about you today, don't know how you did it especially after such a busy day yesterday c u 2morow Toni

box

whenever my ds has gone on camps and things he's hardly ever washed and changed and comes back with a rucksac of unworn clothes buried under the only set of clothes that he changed out of and that was only because they were normally soaking wet from a water activity. Have a great time and don't worry to much about clothes and things just enjoy the experience together. Toni

i can't wait till you get back to hear all about it, lucky you that you can zip up a single sleeping bag , once when we used to camp i rolled off the airbed in the middle of the night all the air shot to the other side and dh flew up in the air ending up in the dd's tent bedroom enjoy your trip Toni

disney

Well i've just got back and kellyanne was right about a certain hotel i complained got a refund and went to another much nicer hotel. Mr jordan was fantastic dd thinks he's a mind reader he was brilliant with her, he has helped loads and can't wait for dd's glasses to arrive. Toni

Hi my dd has had similar problems since she was about 3 yrs, knee pains ect, she was refered to podiatry and sees a bio-mechanical specialist, she has exercises and insoles, she is now at risk from arch collapse and chill blaines as her feet are always blue they are that cold, dd does have problems regulating her body temp though , my dd's knee pains can be really painful and she ends up in tears, hope you get some help from podiatry, Toni

i saw the word change i have no idea what happened there, must have been to late to try this, but i will hopefully read it right tonight, so my word is fair

sex

beginer

crossword