HI i am new to this board also i am trying to see if my son had aspergers. I have always thought he has add but i can see aspergers symtoms in him aswell. It has been a battle 8 years of his life people just dont understand unless you go through it yourself with your own kids. I have a daughter who is 4 and she doesnt have any problems which is good but she has a hard time being around my son and i hope i can get him diagnosed and get him and us some help.
I know how you feel about all the upset in the household as my son makes so much noise and wants life to revolve around him. He cant settle to play on his own, he wants his sister to play with him then upsets her. We have lots of running about and noises of shooting all the time. He never seems to be able to stop when i tell him he always goes on and on.
Hope things start to get better for you soon. Pm me if you want a chat sometime.