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Got a week on my own while the boys are at their dad's so get to recharge and have some 'me' time!!!! Downside is it is my 40th on Thursday!!!!

Not sure what you are sorry for or why but am sending you a hug <'>

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Just wanted to agree with this as my 10 year old (NT) could definately do with anger management........... he gets so frustrated cos of Mike and the day to day issues. Sorry I can't help but I think so many of us have the same sort of issues x <'>

Hope Bill is ok?? My boys' dad is not much good at coping with Mike either and Chris often rings me in tears as well when they are there. I hate it, much as enjoy some time to recharge my batteries I hate them being upset even more. <'> <'> <'>

Such good news - no wonder you are relieved! Well done!

Thanks, will have a look into this. Do I need someone to refer to to social services or to get a social worker or do I just ring them myself??

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Thanks for all your replies. Have sent off a couple of emails re befriending schemes so will see what response I get. Fingers crossed I have a better day today!!!!

Thanks for that Kathryn! Have sent an email with all my details and explaining my situation to see if they can help. I appreciate your help. Will let you know how I get on! <'>

Am not surprised you are mad and angry - I would be as well! Am sorry I don't have any suggestions for you but just wanted to send you a <'>

I am at my wits end at the moment coping with my boys. Since M was dx (19th July 07) things seem to be going from bad to worse at home. The holidays have been a nightmare with meltdowns practically everyday. To make things worse my eldest boy (NT) is having major strops as well and causing even more problems for me to cope with. I really think I need to have time with him without M being around but being on my own this is impossible to do. CAMHS have been a complete waste of time since I got the dx.......... should have had another appt arranged and have had nothing sorted since they told me about the dx. A couple of friend's have said I could do with some respite or help from someone who could come to the house and help out with M. I need something.................. have spent most of today in tears and I am absolutely exhausted. I can't carry on like this. Does anyone know who I should talk to or contact or what help might be available (if there is anything)??? I don't know where to start.............. Sorry for rambling on!!!!! Thanks

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Enjoy the peace!!!!! Mine go to their dad's on Saturday for a week................ time for a rest!!!!

Sorry Pearl, didn't mean to take it out of context like that.............. it was just how I had read it when I was reading through the thread and I related to it that was all.

I agree with Pearl on this.............. I think I know which thread you mean and I found it very strange so I didn't post on it. it would be such a shame for you to leave over that. Like others have said sleep on it and maybe take a bit of time out but don't leave over that. big hugs <'> <'>