forbsay Report post Posted August 31, 2007 I am really stressed at the moment. I started a new job - made a major muck up last week and my confidence has totally gone. Did something wrong again today and I could feel as though i was getting dizzy................. I did it wrong about 10 times............. don't know how to get confidence back ........... Thanks for reading Forbsay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ASue67 Report post Posted August 31, 2007 Take deep breaths hon................. it is early days and you are only human! You will be fine............... Next week is a new week, think positive and don't dwell on what went wrong. <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brooke Report post Posted August 31, 2007 <'> <'> sorry your stressed i always find with a new job i have to be told at least 10 time how to do something before i can remember it they must think im thick and it always worrys me too but im sure they realise that your still settling in and just try and relax this weekend and not think about it. Hope you feel a bit better soon. <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wishingwell Report post Posted August 31, 2007 Remember the man that never made a mistake, never made anything! Put the job to the back of your mind and have a couple of these <'> <'> and these. Things will get better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spectrummum Report post Posted August 31, 2007 You are focusing to much on messing up it will setle down my friend just be autistic and break it down lol you hold your head up we are human we have a flaw called mistake making we all do it good luck hun shell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted August 31, 2007 <'> forbsay <'> My first day on my new job my head was literally buzzing, I thought it was going to explode! Among my many mistakes in the first year: forgetting to turn the diary page over when my boss was off - missed ALL the work she had set me to do going into the mens loo by mistake (I gave the bloke a hard stare & made him think it was his fault) ringing my colleague at home for reassurance - then getting into trouble for doing just that Five years on I still do stupid stuff! Cut yourself some slack, no one expects you to know everything, it will get better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forbsay Report post Posted September 4, 2007 think i had better try and de-stress myself. Went to dr about something else and he checked my blood pressure. Said it was a bit high and to go and get it checked again in 6 weeks............. Forbsay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ellisisamazing Report post Posted September 4, 2007 forbsay, try and get a little "me time" (difficult I know!!) but remember you are doing brilliant, working, running a home and being a mum!!!! I salute you <'> Look after yourself!! Don't suppose you fancy a week in the Maldives...just me, you and lots of cocktails and a handsome masseuse???!!! .....I can dream! Lisa xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forbsay Report post Posted September 5, 2007 That sounds very appealing! Forbsay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ellisisamazing Report post Posted September 5, 2007 That sounds very appealing! Forbsay OOOOOooooh, just realised that sounds a little 'naughty and experimental'!!!!! I mean a masseuse each! Just imagine it......being drip fed dark rum and being massaged all over?! It sounds like a Gordon Ramsay recipe!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forbsay Report post Posted September 5, 2007 Think i would prefer to drink gin and tonic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted September 5, 2007 Oooooh sounds perfect, can I come as well ????? Clare x x x Forbay - hope things have improved re the new job ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
