carrot, egg or coffee bean?

[purplegail]

Hi all

 

This was used in an assembly at the school where I work this week. Made me cry as I am in danger, sometimes, of becoming the egg! But it also made me more determined to be the coffee bean.

 

 

ARE YOU A CARROT, AN EGG, OR A COFFEE BEAN?

by Mary Sullivan - used with her expressed permission.

 

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as if as soon as one problem was solved a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen.

 

The mother filled three pots with water.

 

In the first, she placed carrots.

In the second she placed eggs.

And the last she placed ground coffee beans.

 

She let them sit and boil without saying a word. About twenty minutes later, she turned off the burners.

 

She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

 

Turning to her daughter, she said, "Tell me what you see."

 

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. (You known the tone of voice.)

 

She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did, and noted that they felt soft.

 

She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg inside.

 

Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

 

The daughter then asked, "So, what's the point, mother?" (Remember the tone of voice.)

 

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water - but each reacted differently.

 

The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

 

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid center. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its insides had become hardened.

 

The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water...they had changed the water.

 

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your

door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot , an egg, or a coffee bean?"

 

Think of this: Which am I?

 

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt

and become soft and lose my strength?

 

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat?

 

Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial

hardship, or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my outer shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

 

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water - the very circumstances that bring the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor of the bean. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you instead of letting it change you.

 

When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate to another level?

 

How do you handle Adversity?

 

ARE YOU A CARROT, AN EGG, OR A COFFEE BEAN?

 

We all certainly handle our fair share of that!!!

 

Gail

[aro]

That's brilliant!

 

Thanks for sharing that

 

A x

[shortcake]

i think i may possibly be an egg......

[oxgirl]

I think I've heard that before somewhere. I'm def. the egg.

 

~ Mel ~

[MichelleW]

I chose coffee bean before I read the thread! I still choose coffee bean after reading it! Well, at least I try to be - and it is my life's focus at the moment I think! Unfortunately the LEA and government are not like water - more like trying to turn iron into gold - impossible at the moment! But I am forever hopeful!

[pearl]

I'd like to be a latte

 

Tis a bit like, when life gives you lemons, make lemonade, innit?

 

Thanks, Gail

[Mumble]

Tis a bit like, when life gives you lemons, make lemonade, innit?

[pearl]

Ummm, *thinks* well lemons are bitter, but you can make something sweet & yummy out of them, does that make sense?

[Mumble]

Ummm, *thinks* well lemons are bitter, but you can make something sweet & yummy out of them, does that make sense?

Nope I buy lemons (on shrove Tuesday) from the supermarket. Life doesn't give me lemons (unless I'm missing out on something here).

 

Don't worry - I'll put this in my book of nonsense you NTs talk!!!!! Along with thinking that you're eggs - a bit of an evolutionary backstep, don't you think?

[pearl]

Lemons as a metaphor for Bad Stuff happening. All a bit Forrest Gump homespun philosophy I suppose, I think I'd prefer the box of chocolates!

[Mumble]

Lemons as a metaphor for Bad Stuff happening. All a bit Forrest Gump homespun philosophy I suppose, I think I'd prefer the box of chocolates!

Well you've lost me completely now - never mind

[allie]

Tis a bit like, when life gives you lemons, make lemonade, innit?

 

Same idea - just different wording that appeals to me.

When life gives you lemons ask for the tequila and salt!!!

[Nic m]

Love it , i've been a bit of everything accross the years and still am depending on situation/person i am dealing with

would like to be a coffee bean.

Nic