hobbityhole Report post Posted January 3, 2008 Happy New Year to one & all - need some advice here, have just found out I am expecting and was wondering if anyone had any ideas how to explain it to my 4 year old ds who has HFA without confusing the heck out of him? Any & all suggestions would be great! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LizC Report post Posted January 3, 2008 Hi not sure really, all children are different even with asd and their understanding can be so different. when I had my third M (AS) was only just over 3 so I didn't really have to explain too much although he understood very well anyway. (he used to call my bump 'the egg' lol) sorry haven't been much help. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 Congratulations ! Sorry don't have any advice but hope what ever explaination you choose goes well <'> <'> <'> Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted January 3, 2008 Congratulations! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oxgirl Report post Posted January 3, 2008 Congratulations! I guess you've got plenty of time to start putting the idea to him and once he starts to see you getting bigger he might get curious. ~ Mel ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brooke Report post Posted January 3, 2008 Congrats I was also expecting when my asd son was 4. To be honest he couldnt have cared less When i got bigger i used to say mummy is having a baby its in my tummy which seemed to interest him a little but i wouldnt worry too much about it try and relax while you can <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nic m Report post Posted January 4, 2008 Congratulations. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rhianydd Report post Posted January 4, 2008 congratulations Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tally Report post Posted January 4, 2008 Congratulations! I was 3 when my brother was born. We were in a shop and I asked my mum, "how did the baby get in your tummy?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Caroline- Report post Posted January 5, 2008 Congratulations! I was 3 when my brother was born. We were in a shop and I asked my mum, "how did the baby get in your tummy?" My son asked me last year if i swallowed him! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted January 5, 2008 Hi.I just found a book on the thread on puberty on a link posted by Baddad today that might be worth a look.I looked around yesterday but could not find any books that might be helpful so it was good timing that the link cropped up today.Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites