Temaru Report post Posted December 26, 2005 Hiya everyone let's create 4 top ten lists of new year resolutions - one for individuals one for us (the ASD community) one we would like for our kids one for what our kids would like from us Cheers TEMARU Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brook Report post Posted December 26, 2005 Hiya everyone let's create 4 top ten lists of new year resolutions - one for individuals one for us (the ASD community) one we would like for our kids one for what our kids would like from us Cheers TEMARU 1: Myself to stop smoking. 2: Educate the uneducated. 3: To tidy up. 4: To stop moaning. Brook Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Temaru Report post Posted December 27, 2005 Hi Brook, ages ago, I was tidying up our sitting room. Matthew was sitting in it and I asked him - 'Do you like the sitting room tidy or in a mess?' He replied that he liked it being in a mess (untidy). I asked him why and he replied that it felt 'warm' when it was untidy/messy, therefore the room must feel cold to him when it is tidy and clean. Lesson there for everyone (with ASD kids) who likes a tidy sitting room? Or - anyone experience the other side of the coin where their kids feel warm with orderliness/tidyness? Cheers TEMARU Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
something vague Report post Posted December 27, 2005 for myself - to become more deciscive, I think. For ASD community - acceptance and understanding. For the children I support - To be part of society, have the same opportunities as everyone else. What 'our' kids want - cant really answer but I know that the children that I support appreciate people who are relaxed and playful with them - and accepting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tylers-mum Report post Posted December 27, 2005 To have more patience (ie, to quit yelling). Understanding and education for all about ASDs. A school that understands and can provide. To fight fight fight for what's best for him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest flutter Report post Posted December 27, 2005 to accept my own limits for our kids to be accepted as indivuduals as always i wnat my baby to be happy dont think she has any ideas of how iam, guess that is my new year game C xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted December 27, 2005 1. to do it with a smile on my face. 2.more understanding . 3. he,d like a ful scale Fendt tractor .........about ?30,000 for a small one 4.me to say yes of course you can , more often. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oracle Report post Posted December 27, 2005 1. Lose weight and keep it off 2. To find a unique selling point for our awareness campaign without having to climb every building in sight 3.That all three of them are happy 4. from the youngest upwards 'All You can Build' Lego, K'nex if you can build it he wants it To be a Games Tester - being paid for something that he loves is the middle ones idea of heaven To get the job promotion that comes up in January Carole Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
supersec Report post Posted December 29, 2005 one for individuals - To not ask "what it is called" when his name is Julian one for us (the ASD community) _ For us to get the help and support that we as parents/carers/siblings etc really need one we would like for our kids To get the help and support that they need and to be treated correctly one for what our kids would like from us more Thomas, Jay Jay the Jet Plane, Chocolate and no little brother i expect! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
UltraMum Report post Posted February 10, 2006 for myself - to become more deciscive, I think. That's not very decisive! Mind you perhaps your name gives the game away I gave up on New Year resolutions years ago! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites