Frangipani

Hi Bid, You have been a wonderful Moderator <'> with your lot at home I think it is a credit to you to take this on as you do a a full and busy life. Good to see you will still be around, thats great <'>

The Neil I just sent you a PM as many know here I am going through something similar but not exactly the same. Just sharing with you in private things I am doing that is helping me get my life back on track. I really understand the hurt you are feeling all to well unfortunately. As I have said Suze is absolutely spot on. Her words of wisdom and many other lovely caring people on here helped me too. Enough said read my PM I believe there is a lot in it that can be comforting and helpful. Keep up those activities like running get the pain out.....read my PM. Take care <'>

Hi The Neil, Sorry things have taken a turn around. From another angle, I know and understand you dont give two hoots about the other guy, and why would you, as far as I am concerned the man is a 'cad' What I am feeling a little emotional about is the poor woman who has just had a baby and found out what has been going on. I also look at Mrs TN please forgive me, but doesnt there come a time when one should set boundaries for themselves, and know what is right and wrong, and her to consider being involved with a man who has a wife that is pregnant, says a lot....... Without predjudice, she hasnt given any thought to the well being of this woman and her new born child, and both their behaviour has been totally dishonourable. Disappointing. IMO Sorry the Neil, I really feel for this woman and you who are the innocent of this. There are things that are acceptable and those that really are not, this is really unfair to the woman, and you. I agree with Mossgrove a trial separation would be a sensible way for you to work through your feelings and have some time out from the situation, as neither you or the lady and her newborn deserve this. IMO Hope you dont mind me saying that. Its part of my Christian belief, its like breaking the commandments and I know I will cop a lot of judgement for saying that, but at the end of the day, if you have no boundaries on such issues what will they do in the future. No excuses for either of their behaviour IMO. You sound like a loving caring person and this is totally unreasonable to play with your hearts like this.

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Hi Kirstie, It seems everyone is away that attended this so here is an old link <'> Hailey http://www.asd-forum.org.uk/forum/index.php?showtopic=9524

Hi Canopus, This can be a bit disheartening but hang in there eventually you will get one foot in the door and you wont look back, once your in the skys the limit. Be patient, sending you lots of these Go get em

Dance stage ???? so that was you a few months back on the You Tube doing all those dances to the songs I uploaded, I knew it Hope you and Ben have a great time and put your orders in for the weather All the best

Thank you She has always picked at herself for her singing, gets really frustrated with herself, so this was a real shock for her, just so happy to see this happen, and the way they recorded her without her knowing, she nearly fell over when they asked her to listen to the tape as she had no idea they could listen to them sing individually. That should put a smile on her dial. Good on you Bid for having a go,....... rescue remedy or not if would take a lot of courage to do that. I used to sing with the choir but its more confronting when you have a microphone to yourself as you would have had at least you had a go. I did a solo a couple of times and if you are nervous you have a lot of trouble with projection, so I am sure if it wasnt the nerves Bid you would have done an excellent job. Theres always the bathroom/shower oh and the car, you can sing out loud but just remember when you get to the red lights someone may be laughing at you. xx

Great News Mr & Mrs Phasmid Well done Phas jnr You did it.

Oh thats Awesome Auriel Well done Wonderful news for you, you must be dancing around the house, Great news!!!!

Hi The Neil, I think everyone feels that way about other peoples children, when it is your own I think we react differently, and also not all kids are like that, my daughter was as quiet as a mouse most of the time, she was the noisiest baby in the hospital but once they are in a routine, things quieten down. Fear is the biggest thing and is easily overcome with a bit of education in the area. This is a huge one for you and Mrs TN and a very important decision for both of you. Only you two can work this one through. Take care TN We are all here for you, hope you sleep better tonight, that is really important when you are making big decisions like this that you are in the right frame of mind, talk it over, talk to your mother even, she knows you best.

Sorry cant resist to tell you She has always had a passion for singing, she had singing lessons for about two years thats how serious it was. She has done a few stage solos over the years, but this is even better. Her church they have the best team, of musicians for youth, drums, four guitarists keyboards and five vocalists and a lead singer, well the lead singer sings like an angel literally as good as Darlene Zscheck a post I put in off topic, well her work commitments and study have taken their toll and she is no longer able to be lead singer, my daughter showed an interest to audition to sing with the band as harmony, well, a few weeks ago one of the leaders pulled her aside and said listen to this. They have the full sound effects stuff and they had recorded her singing along with the other four girls each had their own microphone. He commented on what a beautiful voice she had, my daughter would never agree, but finally someone caught her unaware Tonight they have promoted her to be the new lead singer sorry falling over myself here as I am so excited for her. As you know she has had a tough couple of years, so wow. how about that!!!! Fxx

SV there is a type of Frangipani tree by that name, but this one is different, flowers like in the Avi,

Hi Hev, Hope something gets sorted out for you real soon. Like some have said go to the top, dont take no for an answer. Dont let this go. We want to see you back on here telling us that you did it. Come on Hev go make waves you can do it, I am sure all here would agree. Take a deep breath and write down what you need to do, Sending you lots of these <'> <'> we will be there with you in spirit <'> xx

You certainly are Flora, Well, I wonder who I am.......... ssshhh if you are not sure who I am PM me and I will tell you who no dont say it. Dont give it away xx

That was lovely Those are the words of the Philosopher and Poet Kahlil Gibran, in his book 'The Prophet' a lovely book, only a tini wini book but very powerful and lovely xx