WillR73

Not sure about that. Can we really build a ship that can deliver all 6bn of them safely? Don't want to send the human race into certain destruction - I'm a humanitarian

Couple of years ago I was asked my opinion on the whole 'cure for autism' thing. That's when I started thinking about how I felt on this whole issue. This is the result of my long deliberations. I love my brain and the way it works - it's actually pretty cool What I don't love is what happens when it interacts with the people around me. So I drew the inevitable conclusion. Being an Asperger is a great thing. Sharing a planet with the human race is not

One of those topics that's going to wander all over the place? To go back to the original topic, I am an Asperger and I have had many relationships with women. Not one of those women was an Asperger. And I never so much as winked as another woman while I was them. And I say being Asperger was part of my loyalty -there are rules and I'm hard-wired to follow rules. So I can't accept "my condition made me act like a prat", or "I only acted like a prat because she isn't like me and doesn't understand me". But there's one thing I may have misunderstood. Has he had encounters off these websites since he met her, or is this history? Is she worried because he's cheated before or just his online behaviour? To anewman and the subject of female monogamy. Your graphic image of the whole 'scooping out' thing, plus the existence of barrier sperm, suggests a female pre-disposition to monogamy is more male optimism than scientific fact As for autism and genetics, that wouldn't just fill a new topic - that would fill a new website. And it won't help the original poster, who just wanted to know if an Asperger has problems keeping zipped...lol

Rules are rules - I don't even need to be Asperger to believe in that commandment. Rules for most relationships is monogamy - keep it zipped until you get home. And if some guy think's being an Asperger is an excuse to not follow rules, I'd wonder if he was mis-diagnosed. A prat is a prat no matter what colour you paint him - you don't need research and shrinks to realise she ain't picked a winner Sidenote to anewman - check research on 'barrier sperm'. If women were supposed to be monogamous why has evolution given men so many ways to fight off the competition? Get the feeling we were the ones left back in the cave washing our hair? lol

Sorry Bid, but I'm siding with the violent violet I know exactly what you mean Sarah. I'm Will, 37, late diagnosed Asperger. So I've also had a lot of years of the world being a nasty place before I understood why. I understand what bid is saying, although my interpretation might sound a bit cynical. Lie. That's it. My guide to surviving the human race - smile sweet and lie Birthday cards, periods of mourning, "darling, I love you more than life itself!"...I don't feel a bit of it. Because I am what you describe as an android. On Monday I can love, bury, or any other moment you can imagine. But next morning it'll be just another Tuesday. My point is, fake it. As long as you smile sweet and pretend you're like them, they leave you in peace. Meanwhile think about an old Greek idea. Three kinds of love - Eros, Philios, and Agape. Eros - sexual. Philios - family and close friends. Agape - the human race. Think through the three - decide for yourself if you have loved or can love or want to. Because that seems to be what you're talking about - what feels important enough to care about - yes? I already went through that whole line of thought, but I won't tell my conclusion in case I spoil the surprise