had enough

[dooday24]

:hi all sorry just need to get off my chest. just had enough with the world and fed up with fighting 4 everything. tried 2 get reece a bus pass. couldnt get it until i got a letter from his pead as he dosnt get moillity allowance. then tried appealing against his dla as he only gets medium rate 4 personal care. they will not change ther descision. maybe they should come and live at my house 4 a few days then they might change there mind then i am suposed 2 be housed in bicester so reece is closer 2 school and my mum who cares 4 them when i work. (we live 9 miles away in a village and i dont drive) but we may be waiting another yr and shan has been really bad with her constipation and ended up in hospital a week ago 4 the weekend and is now laid on the sofa in agony with her stomach as she cant go again wat can i do iam going to go insane before long. also working 30 hrs a week looking after people with severe learning difficulties i must be bloomin mad thanx 4 listening just completlty and utterly shattered and fed up

[Bagpuss]

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I hope life looks a little brighter soon hun....hang in there <'>

[lil_me]

<'> Sorry to hear that, unfortunately would be the same in my area as they only give passes to those on higher rate mobility

[hev]

will listen anytime <'> <'> sometimes it seems like nothings ever going to go right again dont it,sorry you are having a rough time right now,no advice for you really just to say keep strong <'> <'> they also give passes to higher rate mobility where i am,i was told to get in touch with my local social services to see if they could help,thought i would wait till hes 16 though,by the time my local social services help me thats how old he will be anyway

[baddad]

hope it's looking brighter soon

 

L&P

 

BD <'>

[smallworld]

I'm with Hev

you only get a pass if you get higher rate mobility (we get lower ) but I think this may be changing in september, not sure if this is only in our LA though

hang in there, I know it's hard, my sister came round today and middley threw a right paddy, she told me to 'chill out'

people just don't get that it's the day on day stress that does your head in

At least on here you know you're not the only one in the boat !

 

wac

[marshmallow]

I hope things get better soon <'>

[forbsay]

Hope things get better for you very soon.

 

Take care

 

Forbsay

x

[smiley]

<'> <'> <'>

 

Hope your feeling stronger soon <'>

 

It's horrible how everything hits you at once isn't it.. <'>

 

Sorry, i can't offer any practical advice - just sending lots of these <'> <'>

 

[dooday24]

thanx everyone makes me feel alot better you know sometimes u just cant take anymore. but on a happy note we have a o wonderful day me and the kids have been on a bike ride and 2 the park with not 2 many upsets

[LizC]

Hi <'> <'> <'> things so hard for you at the moment, but we are all here going through similar things understand!! I hope things get better soon for you and your kids. sorry about your other child being in hospital!

[UltraMum]

Dooday - you should be able to get a free bus pass for your child if they are in receipt of DLA - a new law that came into force last April ... print these off and go and wave them under your council's nose

 

Budget announcement from Dept of Transport

 

Bus passes fact sheet from DirectGov

 

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[dooday24]

thanx mothereve that was interesting reading just wat i needed <'> <'>