rainbow queen

<'> <'> ahhhhh my 4 year old has expressed an interest in this film since the old one was on tv other week thought of trying to take him-but im just bit nervous how it would work out-as he cant sit still at home for long watching films ect...... may give it a go hes only been once to pictures and he was younger then to see spiderman we only lasted 15 mins max..............

ive been out to stockley farm with my 2 boys today and my sister and partner[as back up for me to deal with it all] was great day apart from my son who found it all bit much to deal with so moaned/cryed /screamed/hit/meltdowned and shouted round the farm,but amidst it all we got to see some lambs and feed them a bottle of milk-which was lovely came home with blinding head ache and could see my sister and partner were shattered after trying to deal with my 4 year old.but he loved it in his own way

good luck ahhhhhhhhhh your all going make me clucky talking like that xxx

god bless you and your family at this time <'> <'> <'> xxx

yes i watched it too i also had my sis on phone going on about nanny 911-bullshit !!!!!!!!! and telling me not to shout at them cause thats why they shouting back hence put me in foul mood rest of day -id like to see her have them for 2 weeks hol-in fact she never offers to have just one for the afternoon to give me a break-dont it make yer sick how folk judge

oh dear another week left please give me strength my nerves have had it

in same boat too honey <'> <'> <'> ive no dx as yet only global development delay for my nearly 5 year old,school also think im a nutter as they cant see nowt wrong or shall i say they tend to look the other way so they dont have to face anything so draining isnt it i used to be quite nice about it all now i loose my rag at these appointments and also follow up with sharp letters ect..... as i too have had enough of dealing with it all on my own. take care xxx keep up the fight xxx

compassionate organised spiritual

fortune

yes quite right viper-its not a very big piece but your right-he had a spell of wanting to take the plastic bags in his room and i stopped that too.cheers xxx

hi- theres lots of info on this forum and in the resources section it gives names of good books you can buy aswell. did they not give you much help after the dx?

i start singing and dancing in the kitchen making up me own songs "isnt it a great life[like not],when i cant even make myself a drink/dinner....................ect .....that sounds really odd dont it? its my form of sarcasam cause i cant do it with my son of course he just dont get it so,i let it out that way -ha. either that or utter swear words to myself while im going up and down the stairs cleaning all the mess up ....again....... you can just put money on the minute you sit down i get "mum -i need a poo-will u wipe my bum" he always asks me this every single time to which i reply "go the loo then " every single time-he always needs me to tell him to go-and of course refuses to wipe his bum......

my sons love it too -my 3 year old picked some up in tesco off some packaging they had out for shelf refilling-he even took it to bed with him ahhhhhhhhh bless .

<'> <'> that was very well written brook -i can see all those things in my son when we go to things/socilise/ect...... to everyone else they cant see those things-just shows how much runs through our minds when doing simple things and the range of emotions that occur in our minds as parents when we do the so called normal stuff what other folk take for granted.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU <'> <'>

<'> <'> <'> ive also felt like i was getting some where then you find its just another appointment of many........ my son is 5 in june and he was about 1 when the health visitor started the ball rolling and its still rolling now i know its because everything is not exactly clear cut with my son that its taking so long-plus hes very different in school,which hasnt helped...... all i know is u must just keep on at it--maybe step back a bit and have a rest from time to time then start again -as its all so draining .xxx

hi cmuir im still trying to get my son dx so know how you feel i think what you did was right-its what i did too ,wrote some detailed letters about it all,as i felt i was getting no where. if you dont write or make a fuss they will not bother -well they didnt much in my sons case so u have no choice to battle on wishing u good luck iv just had first few appointments with camhs aftyer waiting over 6 months for them-still waiting to see what happens .......... xxx

get in touch with the police they will put you in touch with a dv outreach person who can help and support you. is there anyway you could move nearer your family? your health visitor could help maybe ? i was stalked off my ex everytime i left the house -i know how awfull this can make you feel -it must be stopped-he wont stop on his own. dont be afraid to ask for help. <'>

i have honey my boys dad was like that we have been apart 3 years -have u got any support round u who can help ? also good forum is hiddenhurt .co.uk. it did effect my boys -but i know it would of effected them terribly if id stayed in that relationship,so dont feel guilty- i had to get court orders to stop the things you said about and the police helped me alot -they gave me a panic button connected to them in my house/mobile/alarm,so there is things or steps you can take to make yourself safer.he is not allowed near me or my boys for life now[had several orders which he broke so now there is a life long one in force-if he breaks that he goes prison]. the police should be told of these things he has said to you-you should note it done in a diary ect.... i was with my ex for 5 years and endured mental and physical abuse. im living proof you can get out and make a better life for yourself-it takes time so dont be hard on yourself-keep strong . <'> <'> <'> welcome to the forum

baby

its also first day of hols for my 2 boys-and they are same paula -quite good on there own but put together and its war.just hoping weather keeps sunny as i cant stand being penned in with them. my sis has agreed to take me and them to local farm fri to see the animals-taking sis and her partner for renforcement as i cant manage the carry on on my own. good luck everyone with the endurance levels

calvin klein

wind

well i recently moved house to council and its 3 bedroomed -though i was in private before and that also was 3 beds-i have 2 boys. i got 3 bedrooms allowed due to my sons probs and he hasnt been dx as yet. i did write some letters explaining how they could not share a room-at the time i wrote this my 3 year old was in a cot and my now 4 year old would try to hurt him by throwing toys at his head ect......amongst other stuff..... there is no way i can leave them alone together all night in a bedroom-you could also word your letter like this saying it would be of danger and harm to have them in the same room-as of course u would not be present in room to see whats going on all night ect....... my 4 year old likes his own space and hates his stuff being moved or messed with, if they had same room i would never get any sleep myself as i know it would be all out war all night long. prehaps your health visitor can also write a letter on your behalf ?

i would take him to a and e if it goes worse or your worried. i had my 4 year old like this the other week i called nhs line up and they sent abulance out-as his temp was really high-i always worry cause i had bacterial meningitis at 19 and the dr thought i had flu and nearly died so i dont take chances with my boys. anyway it turned out he had bad ear infection for which they gave antibiotics and calpol-just as well we went as it was 11 at night and weekend so couldnt get in me drs and it would of gone worse without the antibiotics. so dont think your fussing,give them a ring . p.s my son was sick too with it,which is why i didnt even think it could of been his ear-he never told me his ear hurt.