A-S warrior

i asked myself the same thing, my quess is that she is quite alot lower. she'll never admit to it, even if i had her at gun point. you cant spend as long as she has, in a caloric defisit, with her extreme activity level and not be at a dangerously low weight. also this isn't smiley's only account, rember smiley 1590? there was nearly 2000 posts with that account, on much the same subjects.

Your not missing an awful much. women are complicated beings. in fact, if i stayed away from women, i could be a millionaire by now.

Im a dog. therefore this topic is redundant to me.

morbidly obesse, how have you got into that state? yes i am joking, and yes you are at a good size. ensure you dont go lower though.

Yeah she was, hey! are you the guy she was on the date with?

There just keyboard warriors, and just type to let of steam. im sure there is some gadget out there that can pick up IP adresses. if not just laugh it off, and confront them 1on1 when the oppertunity arises.

Fantastic counter post to mine to kick things off, just what i was looking for, great stuff!

I'll start: 'You gotta know when to fold em' Sometimes in life, your hand just isn't strong enough. its not failure to fold, and call it a day. If a task, job, mission or anything is becoming detrimental to your health or just making you generally unhappy, then one could argue the steaks are to high, and not worth the outcome. so dont ever be ashamed to fold, and try your luck on the next hand your delt. life is a game of poker, some hands are worth the gamble, some are just to weak and will only end up in defeat. If you know deep down, your confidence is low, your cards are too weak, and you feel the failure comming, fold before you get in too deep. when you get delt a royal flush or 5 ace's for goodness sake stay in the game and never quit. Of course this is just my words, but i think when this thread gets going pepole are going to add exellent posts, look forward to hearing them, i love wisdom from the old boys! (and girls)

Lol, i love you trekster, but your negitivity can be a thread killer at times

Just want to say some really really good posts here. darkshine, i love the green text when i get a mo i'll go through and start replying to you all. each post is so well written it deserves its own time allocated to reply to it.

^this^ And people will always find a way to duck out of things, 'i cant make it into work today beacause of' *insert excuse here* i know what your driving at, but there arn't too many pepole i know that need to take sick days, or particulally suffer with the sniffles. not worth the investment imo. i'd rather more reaserch was done on cancer/aids/meningitis/even autistic therapy. again, i know what your saying, and we're talking in theory, but the reality is, it aint worth the trouble.

And i must digress. the evidence to support my above post is all around us, just walk into teso on a saturday morning and take a look at what 90% of the people are putting in there baskets!

By all means do it, but ive been on enough forums to know what happens. im just stating a fact from experience.

I have a cold/virus right now, and i dont know about any of you, but i cope just fine. it makes me chuckle when pepole start trying to cure a cold by eating oranges and drinking orange juice, (you've left it way to late for that now) the key is to boost your immune system via diet before your even close to a cold virus. that means eating lots of saturated fats (yes im being serious) dont eat so many sugars and carbs, and make sure you eating plenty of oily fish, (the positive effects for pepole on the specturm that consume enough omega 3, has been confirmed.) i may have got a cold regardless, but im only in the second day of it and im over the worst already.i have a friend that had the same cold as me, and her symtoms lasted the best part of a week! also home remidies and medicences wont cut it either, vicks vapor rub in case you havent noticed only works when you have your nose in the pot, not practical to walk around with a tub of vapor rub on the end of your nose, and it only works to temporarliy ease the nasal passage, it does nothing to fight the problem at hand! so to awnser your question mike, why spend so much money on medical reaserch beacuse pepole are too bone idle to take care of themselves in the first place? plus there isnt enough money left beacuse of all these gastric bands!

One thing ive come to realise latley, is that opinion has no place with problem solving. if you spend your time constantly arguing about whos right, then nothing will ever get done about the problem. Take me for example, the other weekend i started my youth offending training. and we were all asked questions about whats your opinion on this? everyone had an opinion on something, but ive noticed that having an opinion just gets in the way of everything. it distances you from everybody else. If a young lad comes in, who has just killed a baby (worst case senario i know) then my opinion has no place in helping that young lad realise his error. thats what the law system is for! my job is to lead from setting a good example and keeping my gob shut! by portraying myself as a good person, and spending as much time as possible with the person in question, that young lad will learn his own errors by seeing good in other people and reflecting on himself. if i go around talking down on him, and acting like my shi* don't stink, im only going to make the problem 100 times worse. One word i like is consensus. thats what human beings should be doing more of, reaching consensus on something. albeit, that will come with some debate, but taking into account what everyone has said, and forming one awnser, and maybe letting go of some of your opinions that arn't helpful, you'll find maybe stuff will start to get done. When it comes to a problem on this forum, its a team effort to solve that problem. not one man and his opinion, and then the next man with his, and then 3 pages of arguing. respect each others views, and see if that can be used to help the person in question. but the key is to be non judgemental in the approach, and to sit on the fence and weigh things up. PM each other, develop communication skills with each other, instead of filling a thread up with junk. disscuss the problem at hand in a cool and controlled manner. This forum is a perfect place for all of you to practice communication skills, to set you up for real life. you want to be the best person you can be right? well here is your chance to start that journey. so dont blow it.

Im not going to patronise you and say "hugs" but i am going to say my doors are open if you just wana have a laugh, and a chill out.

I find when the seasons roll around, im happy to be in them. nothing like walking down a road with lots of trees in october.

Is there a difference? yes a significant difference. A-S warrior is brave and untouchable - Ben perry is brave, but also vunrable. A-S warrior is cocky, brash and slightly rude - Ben perry is very gentlemanly and kind, and hates hurting peoples feelings. A-S warrior wont have a bad word said about aspergers syndrome - Ben perry lives in denial and pretends he doesn't have aspergers. A-S warrior has a bad attitude towards pepole that argue with him - Ben perry is embracing and open minded, and has time for everyone. A-S warrior is emotionless - Ben perry is dealing with alot of deep down pain, loss of a girlfriend, loss of a nan etc. A-S warrior is a leader - Ben perry is a strong team member, but not a leader. The point to this topic you ask? ive noticed while ive been away, ive developed an alter ego. A-S warrior is a character ive invented to delude myself. i use A-S warrior as a way to disquise myself from myself. the only parts of A-S warrior that are real are, i do train hard in the gym, and i make alot of pepole laugh with my flamboyant humor. everything else is bravado. i dont want to appear at all vunrable to anyone. i want to appear machine like, methodical and unstoppable. well tonight, im taking off my mask. i am Ben perry. and im as scared as you are to be in this world. im just putting on a brave face and dealing with it.

I think its time i spoke to you in person.

i should have mentioned, that this post was an 'I' statement.

probably not. whats the point? people would post in the wrong catagory anyway.

god i need a f'ing drink. barman! yes please mate!

I wouldn't say quit on the autobiography, but maybe give it a back seat for a while and refresh you mind. get things done that need to get done first, so when you return to writting, you have a clear and thoughtful mind.

"According to the job centre, I am unemployable" there in lies the problem. what the hell do they know? ive been told all sorts of ###### form the jobcentre. dont listen to them. ive had better advice and input from a team of monkeys working on type writters. the NT (espeshilly the idiots at the job centre) are very good at generalising pepople with absolutley no knowledge of: that person as a whole, there condition and there circumstances, or what it is there talking about. and as you've said, you deal with life on your own. another huge plus. that means you can get to know yourself better, and become a proffesional at your own life. thats when my love for aspergers surfaced, when i stoped listening to stupid pepole that diddnt have the first clue what they we're talking about. the truth could be, the reason you feel the way you do about your aspergers is beacuse the NT world has made you feel that way, in that case rember, your not the one with the disability. they are. also, you may not want to hurt people, but not to the extent of you not achiveing your fullest potential. its all you bro.