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      Depression, Mental Health and Crisis Support   06/04/2017

      Depression, Mental Health and Crisis Support   Depression and other mental health difficulties are common amongst people on the autistic spectrum and their carers.   People who are affected by general mental health difficulties are encouraged to receive and share information, support and advice with other forum members, though it is important to point out that this exchange of information is generally based on personal experience and opinions, and is not a substitute for professional medical help.   There is a list of sources of mental health support here: <a href="http://www.asd-forum.org.uk/forum/index.php?showtopic=18801" target="_blank">Mental Health Resources link</a>   People may experience a more serious crisis with their mental health and need urgent medical assistance and advice. However well intentioned, this is not an area of support that the forum can or should be attempting to offer and we would urge members who are feeling at risk of self-harm or suicide to contact either their own GP/health centre, or if out of hours contact NHS Direct on 0845 4647 or to call emergency services 999.   We want to reassure members that they have our full support in offering and seeking advice and information on general mental health issues. Members asking for information in order to help a person in their care are seeking to empower both themselves and those they represent, and we would naturally welcome any such dialogue on the forum.   However, any posts which are deemed to contain inference of personal intent to self-harm and/or suicide will be removed from the forum and that person will be contacted via the pm system with advice on where to seek appropriate help.   In addition to the post being removed, if a forum member is deemed to indicate an immediate risk to themselves, and are unable to be contacted via the pm system, the moderating team will take steps to ensure that person's safety. This may involve breaking previous confidentiality agreements and/or contacting the emergency services on that person's behalf.   Sometimes posts referring to self-harm do not indicate an immediate risk, but they may contain material which others find inappropriate or distressing. This type of post will also be removed from the public forum at the moderator's/administrator's discretion, considering the forum user base as a whole.   If any member receives a PM indicating an immediate risk and is not in a position (or does not want) to intervene, they should forward the PM to the moderating team, who will deal with the disclosure in accordance with the above guidelines.   We trust all members will appreciate the reasoning behind these guidelines, and our intention to urge any member struggling with suicidal feelings to seek and receive approproiate support from trained and experienced professional resources.   The forum guidelines have been updated to reflect the above.   Regards,   The mod/admin team


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About damonshouse

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  • Birthday 04/28/1973

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    Surrey, London
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    Star Wars, Photography, Fitness,
  1. Coming off Sertraline

    I have been on 50mg of Sertraline for over a year now and I have decided to come off them. I am now down to 1/2 a tablet every other day. I am feeling ok. I do have anxious moments, but generally I am ok. I want to learn how to live with my Asperger's and try to live as normal life as possible without the need for medication. So far so good.
  2. My Body

    I have had some counselling and therapy. I can have sex to a point, but it would never involve me climaxing
  3. My Body

    I have tried different things, I just start shaking and then I cry
  4. My Body

    I am very nervous of massage, if I can get relaxed enough, I can just about cope with it. The room has to be dark. I cannot even masturbate
  5. My Body

    Thank you for your comments. Maybe I just need to learn to touch myself first before trying it with others
  6. My Body

    I was abused as a small boy, so it's probably something to do with that. I am scared sexually. It's very frustrating
  7. My Body

    I have always lacked confidence and have always been shy. Even though I have been a model since a young age, I am still worried and anxious about taking my clothes off. I also have trouble allowing people to touch me intimately. I am not even keen on touching myself. Anyone else have these issues?
  8. Feeling Frustrated

  9. My Story

    Thank you so much, that is kind of you.
  10. quick hello

    Hi Linda,
  11. My Story

    Hello So here it goes, a little about me. I am 41 and I am Bisexual. I live with my partner in Surrey, near to London. Since a very young age, life has not been easy for me. I was sexually abused between the ages of 8-11 by a family friend (female) and since then I have struggled with life. As well as certain sexual fears, I also suffer from Anxiety, OCD and other aspects of Asperger's I am sure many of you can relate to this, but my main issues are: I cannot relax, my mind is so full of stuff all the time, I cannot switch off and relax I get worried and anxious about everything, even if it's something I am looking forward to. I am not keen on being a crowded place where I cannot see an easy exit. I have OCD and have to have a routine all the time, I have to plan things ahead. I am very shy and lack confidence. I have not had many sexual partners. I never think I look good enough. I fidget all the time, and have trouble sitting still. I am frustrated with most things. I get bored easily. I talk too much and don't mission too much. I can get angry and upset very easily. I could go on and on with this, but just wanted to put something down here to start with. It's good to be on this forum. Damon
  12. What book are you reading at the moment?

    I am reading a great book which I would highly recommend. It is called The Chimp Paradox
  13. Feeling positive about a new week

  14. Any advice about Sertraline

    I am on Sertraline 50mg, and I have been on it now for around 8 months. It has helped me a lot by taking the edge off and my anxiety levels are a lot better The only thing I have noticed is that is does affect me sexually, but apart from that it's been fine