hev Report post Posted March 31, 2007 the mate who i havent seenfor 3 months,well apart from the coffee the other day has asked me to go out tonight cos her sons in respite,im gonna get my glad rags on,put a smile on my face and paint the town red ive just got to perk up,im a happy person by nature and i cant let all this drag me down,i feel like if i dont fight feeling down its gonna beat me hope i dont do anything silly when i get back and be nice to baddad i know i will have hit rock bottom then Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
annie Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Have a good night Hev, you deserve it . Don't forget to leave the paracetamols beside your bed for the morning, just in case Annie <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Have a fantastic night Hev Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rainbow queen Report post Posted March 31, 2007 have fun hev <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Go for it Girl.....have a great time. Clare x <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted March 31, 2007 don't drink any alcohol or anything like that now, will you?? have fun - but home by 9.30 Drink LOTS of water on your way to bed tonight - better peeing all night than sick as a dawg all day tomorrow L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Be afraid, be very afraid Boho Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Have fun Hev, it will do you good. Then come home & post on here drunk, it will do US good Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
David Matthew Baker Report post Posted March 31, 2007 (edited) Hope you have a great time. P.S. I hope your not ASD and going to take the 'paint the town red' in your post literally. I remember reading in one of my books that someone had a son who heard this phrase on the TV and the next morning the sister ran up stairs and woke her parents. Dad, my brother has painted the house red. He went downstairs to find one spot of red paint on a cuboard in the kitchen. He thought oh well maybe she over-reacted. Then he went outside to find the car, house, windows, mail box all painted in a very vibrant red paint. If I find the book I'll post it up for you. Made me laugh out loud when I first read it. Remember then getting asked what was so funny. Once again have a great time. You deserve it. Edited March 31, 2007 by David Matthew Baker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dolly Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Hope you have a FAB night you deserve it <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flora Report post Posted March 31, 2007 It's getting late.... wonder if she's back yet???? Flo' Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
curra Report post Posted April 1, 2007 Hev, Hope you had a great time last night and are feeling more relaxed today. You've been through so much lately, you really deserved having a break. Curra XX Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 1, 2007 had a really brilliant time i practised my dance moves before i went and grooved like a gooden got the 6.30 bus to town and didnt get in till 3am came in telling nick how much i loved him at the top of my voice,he wasent impressed really glad i went though Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
David Matthew Baker Report post Posted April 1, 2007 Glad to hear you had a good time. Sounds like it probably helped the stress levels a bit too. Hope you get the opportunity for a repeat performance soon. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted April 1, 2007 Glad you had a good time Hev Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 1, 2007 i practised my dance moves before i went and grooved like a gooden came in telling nick how much i loved him at the top of my voice,he wasent impressed really glad i went though Like a good what?? Nick how much you loved him... awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww <'> <'> Tell him when you're sober - might go down better glad you had a good night, ya dorty stopaht! L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 2, 2007 like a gooden baddad!!you know,i danced really well i bet me and you could show john travolta and olivia a thing or too,its the chemistry weve got Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dolly Report post Posted April 2, 2007 (edited) Glad you had a good time hev . How did you manager to keep going till 3 , i'd have been asleep up the corner by 11 Edited April 2, 2007 by dolly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted April 2, 2007 Glad to hear you had a fab evening and yeah how do you manage to keep going till 3am !!!!! Clare x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 2, 2007 like a gooden baddad!!you know,i danced really well i bet me and you could show john travolta and olivia a thing or too,its the chemistry weve got Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted April 2, 2007 I would PAY to see that........ Bads in his platforms n skintight leopard print catsuit...... Hev in everything sparklieeeeeeeee........ "I'm a classy honey kissy huggy lovey dovey ghetto princess Cuz you're filthy (filthy) Oooh, and I'm gorgeous (gorgeous)" Etc....etc....etc.....'till they both fall over..... *run smiley.......RUN!* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 2, 2007 Talking of singing... Ben's finally got all of the lyrics to the 'Thank you, Dad song' into his head: Thank you, Dad, Thank you, Dad I am so glad That you're my Dad It makes me sad No other lad Has ever had The Dad I've had Oh marvelous Dad Oh wonderous Dad The greatest Dad The coolest Dad So thank you, Dad Yes, thank you Dad I love you, Dad You brilliant Dad..... Took three nights of constant beatings to get him word perfect, but we're cooking on gas now! What a pity eurovision's just finished Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
something vague Report post Posted April 2, 2007 What a pity eurovision's just finished What!! you mean i've missed eurovision! SV Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 2, 2007 thats a thought,i watched the show where we pick someone to sing for england but i didnt see the result,who won it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted April 2, 2007 Depends which host you were listening too Hev.....they both called out a different winner Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 2, 2007 did they?ho was the real winner though? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 2, 2007 hold on, hold on... nuts to eurovision... can you all concentrate on learning the words PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 2, 2007 theres only one song which applies to you,ive told you before:your so vain by carly simon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted April 2, 2007 yeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaasssss sir! (just thought up a few dittys.............none of then clean enough to put on the forum, lol!!!!! ) Hev - the brits who won were the ones who sang 'Aaaaaaaaaaaa pizza hut, a pizza hut, kentucky fried chicken and a pizza hut' - so we're clearly going for the sensible vote then.............. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
something vague Report post Posted April 2, 2007 hold on, hold on... nuts to eurovision... can you all concentrate on learning the words PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! OK let me see have i got this right?? clears throat and sings in angelic voice: - Thank you dad Thank you dad I'm so glad That you're so BAD No other lad Has ever had A dad so Bad Oh outrageous Dad Oh Dangerous Dad The weirdest Dad The Smelliest Dad So thank you dad yes thank you dad I love you dad Even though you're mad! SV Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 2, 2007 oh no i didnt like that song,we wont win with that,i thought justin hawkins song was just weird what about few years ago when jordan was pregnant and entered it in that bright pink catsuit i like jordan though,right ive gone right off topic again,ive forgotten what the actual start of the topic was Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 2, 2007 SV, it looks like im saying i dont like your song,i was talking about the eurovision song your songs fab,got old bighead just right Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peppa Report post Posted April 2, 2007 Ahh this thread really made me smile!!!!!! Just to hear youv'e had some fun hev you SOOOO deserve it!!! Love the song Baddad, and the revamp SV! You lot are so funny! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 2, 2007 oh no i didnt like that song,we wont win with that,i thought justin hawkins song was just weird Justin Hawkins entered eurovision??? That's AMAZING!!! One of the greatest mathematicians to have ever lived... wheelchair bound.... talks through a voice synthesizer and STILL finds time for eurovision - WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What?... Steven Hawkins?... Wasn't he that actor who got throat can...?' 'Jack Hawkins?... No surely he was in H R Puffenstuff and Oliver?... Wild?... Well so would you be if you career went down the pan whjen you were 16...... etc etc Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
David Matthew Baker Report post Posted April 2, 2007 Yep we ended up with the mad lot from up North. I'm sure the rest of the country must be voting for the group least likely to win us anything. I think it was all for dear Terry so he can make some intersting comments come the real thing. I voted for the French girl myself. Here is a bit on the mad lot who won. http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio2/eurovision/200...mu/scooch.shtml And here is a link that includes the song that won: http://www.myspace.com/scoochworld You need Flying the Flag for You. I do worry about the rest of the population at times. I think we must be one of the last islands of sanity. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNeil Report post Posted April 3, 2007 Hope you have a great time. P.S. I hope your not ASD and going to take the 'paint the town red' in your post literally. I remember reading in one of my books that someone had a son who heard this phrase on the TV and the next morning the sister ran up stairs and woke her parents. Dad, my brother has painted the house red. He went downstairs to find one spot of red paint on a cuboard in the kitchen. He thought oh well maybe she over-reacted. Then he went outside to find the car, house, windows, mail box all painted in a very vibrant red paint. If I find the book I'll post it up for you. Made me laugh out loud when I first read it. Remember then getting asked what was so funny. You do realise that this is a problem for some people don't you? I'm glad you find it funny Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 3, 2007 You do realise that this is a problem for some people don't you? I'm glad you find it funny Hi TN - As someone who has regularly posted on the 'lighter side' of autism I'm quite surprised at the tone of your comment. I'm fairly certain that David, in the same way that you do, was laughing with autistic people, not at them, and if i - or any other moderator - hadn't felt that the post would have been edited. If anyone else shares TN's point of view, please feel free to advise the moderating/admin team, and we will take your concerns into consideration. L&P BD (who has answered personally - not as a 'spokesman' for the mod/admin team) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNeil Report post Posted April 3, 2007 (edited) Hi TN - As someone who has regularly posted on the 'lighter side' of autism I'm quite surprised at the tone of your comment. I'm fairly certain that David, in the same way that you do, was laughing with autistic people, not at them, and if i - or any other moderator - hadn't felt that the post would have been edited. If anyone else shares TN's point of view, please feel free to advise the moderating/admin team, and we will take your concerns into consideration. L&P BD (who has answered personally - not as a 'spokesman' for the mod/admin team) Appreciated BD. Just a 'touchy' subject for me and, while I will poke fun at ASDs, it's usually always based on something stupid that I've done (i.e. I laugh at myself, not at others). Maybe I'm just tetchy Edited April 3, 2007 by TheNeil Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 3, 2007 Appreciated BD. Just a 'touchy' subject for me and, while I will poke fun at ASDs, it's usually always based on something stupid that I've done (i.e. I laugh at myself, not at others). Maybe I'm just tetchy No worries, mate - we all do 'tetchy' from time to time! L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
David Matthew Baker Report post Posted April 3, 2007 (edited) I laughed at it because how the book worded it. It wasn't meant in a negative way in the book just an amusing antidote. I think things like that help others to understand better how autistic people think. I realise it is a real problem. Also it is that sort of information (sadly) that will stick in other peoples minds and help them to remember how to talk to an autistic person. That paragraph hammered that point home far better than all the theory ever did. I still grin everytime I think of it. Mainly because of the innocence of that child and lack of understanding. Unfortunatally from memory the Dad rather over reacted at the time. The son was made to help scrub off all the paint. Though I believe they also said their son better understood afterwards the meaning. I wouldn't post something that I thought would upset people. I did however think that it is a good insight (if at an extreme) of how autistic people think. It is funny because I can only just manage to picture such a scene and because of the way the author wrote it down. Once again sorry if I offended anyone. That is the last thing I want to do. EDIT: Not found out which book it was from otherwise I would have posted it up for you. You'd then see what I mean about the way it was written. Also this is laughing with someone because of a cute misunderstanding. I can tell you now I don't laugh at people been silly. It tends to disgust me. Hence can't stand the likes of Jackass. Edited April 3, 2007 by David Matthew Baker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
