hev Report post Posted April 15, 2008 steve went back to school at 6 yesterday,got a phone call from him just now,i asked him why he wasent in lessons he said he took nicks beers to school and got really drunk last night and hes ill today!im so angry that he stole off us/drinking alcohol,ive phoned the school they phoning me back. i think he going to be expelled,its usualy that with alcohol isent it?im so upset,yesterday went so well,i thought the alcohol phase was behind us do you think he will be chucked out? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lya of the Nox Report post Posted April 15, 2008 he is at a special unit hun, not sure they kick them out that quick, he will be in trouble tho, he is just seeing how far he can go i think call the school, find out thinking of you get on a train come down for a cuppa! xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flora Report post Posted April 15, 2008 hev, If they were going to expell him I would have thought they'd just send him home straight away, the fact that he's still there has to be a good sign don't you think? Surely they'd give him at least one chance. Hope they don't expell him for one incident hev, that would be so unfair to just give up after one transgression without giving him the opportunity to learn from the mistake and show that he won't do it again. <'> <'> for you. Flo' XXXX Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted April 15, 2008 I think he'll be okay Hopefully they'll give him a strong enough 'rocket' that he'll know not to risk it again, but if no one else was involved I'm sure they'll be as understanding as they can be <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mossgrove Report post Posted April 15, 2008 I imagine that a residential school that caters for adolescent boys with behavioural difficulties will have dealt with the alchohol issue before, and I hope they won't be too trigger-happy. The school should also be asked how Steve was able to drink smuggled-in beer to the extent that he was too hungover to attend school without any of the staff noticing. They really should have noticed what is going on and dealt with it before it got this far. Simon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Hev, got to agree with the others...I'm sure he'll be ok <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted April 15, 2008 I really hope school let S know in no uncertain terms that he is in serious trouble but do keep him. Could it be that he did this in order to provoke a response or test out how tough school are ? If so I do hope they are prepared to stick with S and show they can cope. <'> <'> Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Enid Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Oh Hev, Its one thing after another isnt it! I am sure they wont though, I used to work at a school fot 70 boys with behaviour probs and we used to check all bags when they came back, and all known hiding places!! they should have found it. Do you think he did it because he thinks he will get sent home? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tally Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Hev <'> It's been several hours. You could ring them back now and ask. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted April 15, 2008 <'> Hev I am hoping no news is good news.Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
harmony Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Hoping everything has worked out ok. The school should be held responsible, if they don't check kids bags, or don't keep tabs on what they are up to and when, then it can not be 100% your boys fault. My brother went to a boys boarding school, and he was found twice in the local pub, very merry. he was also found in a bad way with 2 empty bottles of scrumpy. My father was mad with the school for not checking on my brother enough, and blamed them for their poor handling of the boys over all. Boys will be boys AS or not. If the school wants to throw stones, they should first look at themselves. Harmony x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 15, 2008 well the school phoned and said he is unit based for the week which means staying in with no treats,good im glad about that!!they said it wont affect his placement as its a one off,thank god,they have got him sussed cos they said where he hadent been there for 3 weeks he wanted to come in with a bang so to speak on his first night back!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Well hopefully he had a huge hangover this morning and that will put him off a repeat performance - for a while anyway. K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted April 15, 2008 so glad its sorted out hev u must of been really stressed bet that its a weight of yr mind love donnaxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oxgirl Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Well, that's a big relief, hev, I've been wondering about you all day. <'> The school sounds really good. ~ Mel ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted April 15, 2008 <'> <'> Hev...I have been wondering about you all day. Sounds like the school know what they are doing.Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stressedmumto2 Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Fab news Hev, so glad the school are handling this properly and it will hopefully be a good learning curve for Steve too!! <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Enid Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Phew, bet you sleep well tonigh. Enid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted April 15, 2008 Great news Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted April 16, 2008 Hev, so pleased <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lya of the Nox Report post Posted April 16, 2008 am glad i didnt expect anything different from the school tho, bet they had way worse xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
