hev Report post Posted May 22, 2007 im sitting here waiting for the police,steve made a 999 call saying i attacked him,i didnt,nothing set him off,he just was in terrible mood and went in toilet and called them on my mobile,hes got a snooker cue saying he needs protecting from me. probably seems very odd to you that im typing on here,dont know what else to do,no reasoning with him ive tried,if they take him away i will not cry,i really really cant do it no more,he likes the drama while im sitting on a computer crying,katie sees it all,ive explained on phone about aspergers,this is not aspergers,this is a bully and i want peace Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peppa Report post Posted May 22, 2007 im sitting here waiting for the police,steve made a 999 call saying i attacked him,i didnt,nothing set him off,he just was in terrible mood and went in toilet and called them on my mobile,hes got a snooker cue saying he needs protecting from me. probably seems very odd to you that im typing on here,dont know what else to do,no reasoning with him ive tried,if they take him away i will not cry,i really really cant do it no more,he likes the drama while im sitting on a computer crying,katie sees it all,ive explained on phone about aspergers,this is not aspergers,this is a bully and i want peace <'> >< <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted May 22, 2007 wish they would hurry up,neva know they might charge me with assault Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted May 22, 2007 (edited) I have no idea how heartbreaking and soul destroying this must be for you hunni <'> I don't know what to suggest - but something needs to be done. Something someone told me on here, (before i went to my first multi-meeting-thingy at M's school) was to imagine that we were all there with you - we are <'> <'> Edited May 22, 2007 by smiley Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted May 22, 2007 i know you are,you made me cry again then Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
di30 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 im sitting here waiting for the police,steve made a 999 call saying i attacked him,i didnt,nothing set him off,he just was in terrible mood and went in toilet and called them on my mobile,hes got a snooker cue saying he needs protecting from me. probably seems very odd to you that im typing on here,dont know what else to do,no reasoning with him ive tried,if they take him away i will not cry,i really really cant do it no more,he likes the drama while im sitting on a computer crying,katie sees it all,ive explained on phone about aspergers,this is not aspergers,this is a bully and i want peace Hiya Hev. 'AWWW' you are really going through a rough time !! I am sure they will realise you've done nothing wrong. I am praying all will work out for you hon, and we are all here for you anytime. Hope to hear from you soon, and hope all is resolved.........fingers crossed for you. Luv Di xxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bard Report post Posted May 22, 2007 I don't know what to say hev, other than you have done your best and Steve obviously neds more than one individual can manage. Haven't the police been involved with him before? I think the consistency and support he will get from residential school will really help you and him. Where is Katie? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 Hev, please try to stay strong for Katie's sake. Wish I could do or say more.... <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Clare x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forbsay Report post Posted May 22, 2007 Sending you lots of hugs Hev. Thinking of you. Forbsay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
David Matthew Baker Report post Posted May 22, 2007 Stay strong. Remember you are doing your best for him. Even if he doesn't realise it. <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> I just wish the agencies around you would be a bit more supportive and that we on here could do more to help you. <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> You don't deserve any of this. Remember that! I hope this sorts it's self out quickly for you. All the best, David. <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lynyona Report post Posted May 22, 2007 Aw Hev <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Thinking of you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bambi Report post Posted May 22, 2007 Awww hev, so sorry about the situation u are in and hope all works out for the best <'> >< <'> >< <'> Bambi x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted May 22, 2007 Hev, hope you are ok, have the police turned up? <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted May 22, 2007 Hi hev - try not to worry too much (difficult i know, but by tomorrow morning this'll all be done and dusted) and just leave him to it. One thing i would say, though... the other week he attacked n with a pool cue... he's locked himself in the loo with a pool cue tonight... do yourself a favour, and tomorrow get rid of the pool cues. If they're S's pool cues, he'll have seen a solid consequence to his behaviour tonight/two weeks ago. if they're n's, ask him to leave them with a neighbour and only collect them when he's going out to play pool. Meanwhile, hope the police are out of there soon and you can get to bed. That's where I'm off to right now! (another early night out the window! ) L&P BD <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted May 23, 2007 baddad they took the pool cue with them thank god. steven is v sheepish today,i think the telling to they gave him put him off doing it again,im so tired today but the police were fantastic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted May 23, 2007 Yeah... it's all a ploy pandering to your 'men in uniform' fetish isn't it? Ever since you went and saw the Chippendales it's been police one week, fireman the next...... I heard last week you were parading around the naval base at Chatham with a boom box belting out the theme tune to 'An officer and a gentlemen'... Missed out on Richard Gere but there was a salty old angler with his Fishing Gear... Ah well, not quite the sharp white uniform you were looking for, but rubber waders and an anorak will do at a pinch (is that a disgorger in your pocket or.........) Not so much your Dream Date as a Bream Date, but at least he had some sandwiches with him.... No no no, the spam and bread was his BAIT!! Glad things worked out OK - see, i told you not to worry! L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lya of the Nox Report post Posted May 23, 2007 glad it calmer now be kind to self hunny <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted May 23, 2007 You must be exhausted, be easy on yourself today. <'> <'> <'> Clare x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
di30 Report post Posted May 23, 2007 Hiya Hev, Glad everything worked out. Try to relax if you can now. Thinking of you. Luv Di xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rach04 Report post Posted May 23, 2007 <'> >< <'> >< <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted May 23, 2007 Yeah... it's all a ploy pandering to your 'men in uniform' fetish isn't it? Ever since you went and saw the Chippendales it's been police one week, fireman the next...... I heard last week you were parading around the naval base at Chatham with a boom box belting out the theme tune to 'An officer and a gentlemen'... Missed out on Richard Gere but there was a salty old angler with his Fishing Gear... Ah well, not quite the sharp white uniform you were looking for, but rubber waders and an anorak will do at a pinch (is that a disgorger in your pocket or.........) Not so much your Dream Date as a Bream Date, but at least he had some sandwiches with him.... No no no, the spam and bread was his BAIT!! Glad things worked out OK - see, i told you not to worry! L&P BD god what i would do to see you in a uniform baddad Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peppa Report post Posted May 23, 2007 So so pleased things worked out well for you, hope you're feeling much better today, take care hun xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted May 23, 2007 hes at mums tonight so its nice to have a breather for a bit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted May 23, 2007 god what i would do to see you in a uniform baddad Well i've got my nurses uniform... the skirts a bit tight these days but i can probably still squeeze into it! enjoy your breather <'> L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites