hev Report post Posted June 4, 2007 a couple are coming to meet steve at 10 today about taking him out 2 days a week,apparently my social worker said they are lovely i feel sick with nerves,dont know why,dont like all this really,so wish i didnt need all these strangers in my life but when things get bad here they are really bad so its for the best Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brooke Report post Posted June 4, 2007 Hi Hev I also find it very hard to accept help too but we need it and deserve a break if we can get one. Dont feel guilty im sure he will have a great time <'> <'> Brooke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted June 4, 2007 Hope it went well <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted June 4, 2007 Hope it went well <'> i got my days mixed up,its tomorrow at 9.30,tidied up my house for nothing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted June 4, 2007 Popped onto this thread to see how it went Hev Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
something vague Report post Posted June 4, 2007 Quote Hev: i feel sick with nerves,dont know why,dont like all this really,so wish i didnt need all these strangers in my life but when things get bad here they are really bad so its for the best I've done quite a lot of respite work and have loved it. Hopefully, you'll get good respite workers who you'll feel are friends in no time I do understand how you feel tho, it must be difficult having lots of people involved in your lives when you would much rather deal with stuff yourself...............and have done so for so many years! Good luck and make the most of the help on offer <'> SV Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wishingwell Report post Posted June 4, 2007 A well at least the house is tidy one less thing to worry about. Good luck take all the help u can get Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted June 4, 2007 hope tomorrow goes well... as for 'tidying for nothing' the rumour mill says that's all N's doing anyway! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted June 4, 2007 i got my days mixed up,its tomorrow at 9.30,tidied up my house for nothing Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay........ Hope tomorrow goes well.............. <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deedee Report post Posted June 4, 2007 Just checked in to see how it went Hev....oh ok I'll check again tomorrow At least you won't 'hopefully' have to do the house again! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
witsend Report post Posted June 4, 2007 Hev - _ Good luck for tomorrow, luv witsend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted June 4, 2007 hope tomorrow goes well... as for 'tidying for nothing' the rumour mill says that's all N's doing anyway! take no notice of the rumour mill baddad its all lies kim and aggie would be very proud of the way i clean my house Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted June 5, 2007 well they are defo coming at 10 today,done the house again,im getting good at this cleaning lark Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted June 5, 2007 Are you sure hun...?? Really, really, really sure.....??? Hope it goes well - i've got everything crossed for you <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted June 5, 2007 Hope is going/gone well Hev <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deedee Report post Posted June 5, 2007 How'd it go Hev??? Hope they were nice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted June 5, 2007 the couple we met were absolutely lovely they were aged 55 and done loads of respite over the years,i feel fantastic about him going to them for respite,all day mondays and fridays you know when you just feel at ease with people and the way they spoke with steve was lovely,not false,not put on just natural i feel so positive Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aro Report post Posted June 5, 2007 <'> fantastic news. A x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted June 5, 2007 That's is brilliant Hev, so chuffed for you and Steve, hope it works out really well Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oxgirl Report post Posted June 5, 2007 Wow, that's fab, hev. Hope he really enjoys himself and you enjoy the rest too. <'> ~ Mel ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
something vague Report post Posted June 5, 2007 Thats great news SV Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted June 5, 2007 Yay!!!! <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
summertime Report post Posted June 5, 2007 thats fantastic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted June 5, 2007 Great stuff! Bid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted June 5, 2007 I hope it works out hev, good news so far! K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lil_me Report post Posted June 5, 2007 (edited) Pleased it went well, hope he enjoys spending time with them & you both get something out of it. Edited June 5, 2007 by lil_me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
