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  1. and this which looks more complete. <'> http://www.hypericum.com/toc.htm
  2. Hi viper just found this: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/special_reports...ion/stjwort.htm http://nccam.nih.gov/health/stjohnswort/ Hope this help.
  3. Hi Viper, <'> Stangely enough I was having those kind of thought today feeling so low for so long and wondering if I should get help on the top of what you discribe I have tearful session nearly everyday with tears running down my cheeks. In fact I had for weeks a form to fill up for the mental health assistant but coulnd't be bothered as nothing seems to make a difference anyway. Yes I think it is some kind of depression the fact is that I don't have much idea how to get out of it except asking for medication, which I would like to avoid. I remember there is a natural medecine to help with depression but right now cannot remember the name I will try to find out and let you know. As far as I know depression comes when you feel traped in a situation you dislike and don't feel that there is a way out. somehow I feel there is as well some chemical imbalance in the body due to stress which accumulate and disable some part of my mind making me unable to cope or enjoye anything anymore adding some sleep problems to the picture. The fact that I have hypothyroidism cetainly doesn't help. May be you should ask for your thyroid to be check? I have been through so much in the last 15 years that I feel completly worned out however I know that summer bring some relief but not enough to go through the winter. When I'll get the name of the plant which help I will let you know I must say that I do not trust much conventional medecine in the matter except if things are really going so bad and I do not have anymore choice. Take care..... <'> <'> <'> Malika.
  4. Loulou... <'> <'> <'> Most has been said really accident happens, hopefully his thumb will heal soon. Take care. <'> Malika.
  5. Hi stressedmum2 <'> <'> <'> Feeling very sorry for you, we have 2 cats and loosing them would be devastating, if you are near a busy road it is indeed very difficult, do you have a back gardens? My cats are scared of cars and only going in the back garden but there is so much space in the back as all gardens in this area are very deep however what I did with my first cat was to keep her in for 3 months then let her out once a day before giving her food like that she was back to eat then twice a day and never at night until she was around 10 months old, she is the kind of cat who cannot stay in and it was hard job. May be keeping them at night would help as often cats venture on the road at night and are not seen. Do you know when your cat was run over? the other thing you could do would be to have 2 cats together ot keep each other compagny. When I had my cats vaccinated the vet stressed out that the main danger to cats were cars not disease. Hope your children will feel a little better soon. Take care. <'> Malika.
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  7. Malika

    Tribunals

    Forgot to say that the decision was made to "prefer" the report from the EP (working for the LEA) against the medical report and mother opinion (I had support from the apsea who thought I had a good case). officialy the school did not back me up but did not show much point against me either.
  8. Malika

    Tribunals

    Hi to all. I lost my tribunal and it was just for statutory assesment, Kathryn is right people on the panel do not need to have specific knowledge of the specific SEN. In my case for sure there were a man who could relate to everything I was saying and the women with Sen experience was shock to see that the school and LEA had no idea of H needs except tryng to denie his DX, I think the chairman was the one who made the decision and did not have much knowledge of ASD. I will send you a PM with the name. Malika.
  9. Hi Carole, Well I have tried to get a key worker and been explain by the CDT that 1) H is not severe enough 2) he is over 5 so they have no frame work for children over 5.. then been told it is a shame that you did not get the help you needed when you needed it ...and good luck to me..I love happy ending and easy way out. I think when I'll really go mad and they'll put me to sleep for 3 months or so may be they will put something in place. For me all this is just political propaganda and nothing else. Take care. Malika.
  10. Hi Mother in needs, <'> <'> <'> I feel sorry for you to have to deal with all this on the top of the rest (like the cherry on the cake) however most father and men in our life find it difficult to emphasise (not all and I apologise for the one who really do) even more difficult when they don't have to live with it 24/7. My partner was a bit unwilling to understand for many month (as well H is not his son) and one day I had enough and printed lot of staff about education and ASD behaviour and told him to pick up all the papers on the printer and to have a good reading , since then he has made much effort but of course he lives with us and has to deal with H on daily basis. Never the less he still needs reminding from time to time.... Hope you will find a way to educate your ex Take care. Malika.
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    Tux you are quite right have a look at this "the origine in IQ test" from France not to be proud of really. http://www.audiblox2000.com/dyslexia_dysle...dyslexia014.htm Malika. <'>
  12. Dust... (Dust in the wind I love that song.)
  13. Malika

    WWW.SITE?

    Hi Tez <'> Spot on , thank you, of course it is quite obvious now, when I do numbers or problems solving I now tend to think it in English but when it's getting more complexe I reverse into French which annoyes my daughter when I help her with her math home work. Malika.
  14. Hi <'> As far as I know there are two schools for children with autism one is for severely impaired children from 5 to 18 where they learn sign language and picture to teach some form of communication it is a very specialised school another is more for AS ASD children who cannot cope in main stream there are 60 places for children between 5 and 18. if not there is a language and communication unit attach to one of the primary school, and a high school (church of England) which has a very specialised SEN department catering for AS children from 11 to 18 and there is as well a college for 18 19 years old for young adult with AS or ASD attached to another high school. In the borough next to mine there is a school (primary) with a language unit for all form of language impairment with some children admitted with "pragmatic language disorder" kind of DX there is as well a school for AS children, that one is quite far from my home but would be ideal for H. What I have been told is that special school or unit are sucking all the budget and this is why there is nothing more which can be done in creating unit or giving training and trained TA for AS ASD children in mainstream. Malika.
  15. Malika

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    Hi just done it again and corrected 3 questions I answered wrongly and got 140 but I am still a visionary philosopher Shape and sequence are suppose to show our strenght in logic well in fact the language aspect of the test is quite poor, not being English mother tongue there is no way I could score as much if the language was more complexe. One I did not really understood was about John?? who likes 400 but not 300 likes 100 but not 99 and likes 3600 but not 3700 What does he likes 900, 1000, 1100, 1200 I thought first that it was 1200 who can be divided by 4 but 1000 can be divided by 4 so I thought may be it is 1100 because adding 400 + 100 + 600(from 3600) all numbers he likes gives 1100 but then 1200 is 3600 divided by 3 and 400 X 3 and 100 X 12 (12 is 4X3) well does anybody has a clue? Malika.
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    135 visinnary philosopher Just done it and just realised that I have answer wrongly at the last question and why I'll do it again another day.. it's fun but I remember being assest at age 11/12 with plenty tests and a big alarm clock ticking loud and scoring only 115 in logic numbers and 125 in language and it was a bad and stressful experience especialy that what I got from my Dad was hmmm your brother scored 135 in both.... Malika.
  17. Hi to all. <'> Yes oh yes I do enjoy H he is so much fun and so loving and even during the last 3 months when he was so difficult I never let him fall asleep without a little talk and a cuddle to help building the bridge,now things are a bit better and I am so glad I manage to keep the relationship going even at the worst time. When he is at school I really miss him, and cannot wait until I got my cuddle and his chatting (continuous) on our way home . May be because of all this, meltdowns are a bit easier to accept even if so draining , but I know H cannot help it and this breaks my heart because H is such an amazing loving little boy. <'> Malika.
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