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Thank you everyone. Said we can have help if we want because it's our third

And your IQ would be very high ifyour reading was that good at 11 month.

Thanks everyone. Have edited op with bad news

He needs to learn the why - do you explain why? Look on the internet for scientific explanations if need be (I often have this with my ds) and I think the saving up and replacing them himself is a good way of helping him to see the effect his behaviour has.

SS are usually there to help and don't tend to split families up...they can't help what they don't know about. Mention it to the clinical psychologist too....say you feel that the behaviour needs working on and that would help you to relax if you knew what to do in this situations. <'>

Do you feel in control now though? I don't think you do, I think you can control hiding it and now you're fit to burst. It's much of a relief when you do find a way to change the way you deal with it. For example I used to be so worried about my ds' behaviour because of how other's saw me - now I don't care as much and am alot less anxious about the behaviour and it in turn has become less of a problem....does that make sense? good luck hope you've found a good un

Sounds good Glad he has a place there. Was there anything you weren't happy with?

Yes then the dinner ladies don't want to know when something is up because he's bothered them too much

Yes it's out of date stuff called behaviourism. Mine was at infant school too

I only work during school hours and my dh only works 3 shifts a week...so I do extra time out of school hours when he's home.

Thank you everyone. Have appointment with epu tomorrow. Since had more bleeding

It is very good - I'm very impressed. It is where I send people who ask me what is up with my ds now

I have no advice but just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and hope you get some help and answers. <'>

Glad you are feeling so positive

I would agree (I've studied and written many of these tests) that IQ tests only really measure the ability to do IQ tests. Their purpose was only originally to help seperate those who needed help academically from those who didn't....and that has changed quiet a bit since then too.

I've heard alsorts of tosh on the road to get "professionals" to listen to me that he has it - and that's with a degree in psychology. The best is when his teacher said that I "condition" him to say he's being bullied(different school than he's at now) because he gets attention from me asking "did you have a good day at school?"

My work say I have to "make the time back up" I know it's rubbish and what my rights actually are - but it's hard fighting all the time. Glad you got your hols back.

But is he consistent with his rules? And does he make new rules so he is right? My ds is always right and just can't see the other side of the arguement or think about anyone else in situations. good luck with your second opinion.

Good morning. Hope you get some sleep soon. My day is not good - but at least I get to stay in bed and on my laptop

But not so fast that you don't have chance to understand what the question is asking of you.

I like this one brill site too

Thanks - have doctors appointment later today. I can't believe this is happening again

I never thought about that Thanks I will do.

lol soon they'll have to try and rename the board after you

You're welcome