hev Report post Posted March 31, 2007 after the last couple of weeks yesterday was final straw,neighbour knocked on the door saying steve has been throwing eggs in their garden,swearing at them from his window for about a month,she is elderly and very upset,i checked my eggs and steve admitted it,at the same time my sister turns up saying her neighbour just stopped her saying steve been weeing out her front,i had word with steve then he ran out telling me to eff off as he went,i couldnt stop sobbing,i phoned ss to tell them to come and get him as i had no more energy left,they said they couldnt,looking back im glad they couldnt but at the time i was hysterical,hes up mum till tomorrow then the fun starts again,am looking at residential school in cheshire on the 20th of this month,yesterday i thought i was going to end up in hospital Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Hev, wish I knew what to say, but words seem so inadequate now <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jb1964 Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Hev, thinking of you - chin up. Take care, Jb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alexandra Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Oh hun you poor thing you really sound so stressed out, I really feel for you, sending you a (((((((((hug)))))))))), keep strong xxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caren Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> <'> hev thinking of you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted March 31, 2007 try and keep yer pecker up, hun <'> <'> Hope that visit on the 20th is worthwhile, and hope you find some calmer waters in between times... L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bikergal Report post Posted March 31, 2007 I'm not surprised it's all too much, you've had so much to cope with. Chin up, Hev <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marshmallow Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> <'> <'> Thinking of you, hopethe visit to the school is successful <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
annie Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> Hev <'> Hope the visit to the school goes well. Annie xx <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> Hev, I,m in Cheshire, if I can be of any help when you come to look at the school let me know...pm me the name I may have heard of the school.I could meet up and check it out with you if you need support.Take care Suzex Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ellisisamazing Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> Wishing you lots of good thoughts, and hope that life becomes CALM and SERENE for you all soon! Keep Strong, You're a bluddy good Mum! Lisa xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flora Report post Posted March 31, 2007 hev <'> Hope the visit goes well and you get something sorted soon.... sooner the better by the sounds of things. Sounds like you're nerves are in tatters... I have a fridge magnet which says... 'I've only got one nerve left......... and you're getting on it'.... Does that sound familiar?? Love and best wishes Flozza <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Oh hun <'> Just hang in there for a bit longer, I know it seems never-ending, but you will get there <'> Bidx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
David Matthew Baker Report post Posted March 31, 2007 I hope your meet with your friend goes well tonight. You need a positive after all the problems you have had of late. I really hope things start getting better for you soon. Good luck with getting him into a residential school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted March 31, 2007 Hev <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> <'> <'> Awww Hev, thinking of you. Clare x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elun1 Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> <'> Don't know what to say but sending you <'> <'> Elun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pepper Report post Posted March 31, 2007 (edited) Hev, my dear, my AS son is 'no bother' i still get so stressed and driven insane running after him, my thoughts are with you, HEY im in cheshire too!!! can i post my little sod tya? JOKE..........gawd arnt kids exausting ( im meaning my NT pair now *weeps* ) Edited March 31, 2007 by pepper Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lynyona Report post Posted March 31, 2007 <'> <'> <'> <'> hev <'> <'> <'> lynn Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paula Report post Posted April 2, 2007 <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Hev dont no what to say but am thinking about you I hope the school is one you feel you can send steve to i read all youre posts and i think youre lad needs 24 7 structure in his day for him and for you so that things can get easier however hard its going to be to let him go personally i think residential school could be the answer.......... Like someone else says in comparison my 13 year old As son is a doddle yet i still get stressed and feel like screaming if im honest some times i could kill him..............Youre one tough cookie Hev and one hell of a good mum no matter what you think........Youre no failure .............Youre walking a tough old path but its got to get easier........... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted April 2, 2007 thankyou,i feel so so much better than friday,when i think how hysterical i was to ss on the phone it dont seem like it was me,have spoke to ss and lea today,i think cheshire is not the anser,too far away,going to find a school if possible,have got a multi agency meeting booked at the school for after easter with ss,lea and me so dont know if anything will come of it but least its a step foward Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
louxx Report post Posted April 2, 2007 <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> all the very best to you hev <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
