dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 feeling really down at the moment got loads of family probs i cant go in2 at the moment ............ and shannons been really ill with a perferated eardrum bless her...... so im sleep deprived........ also worked a 14hr shift yesterday.......... and reece has been awful think hes picking up on the stress............ whys life sooooooooo hard boohoooooooo.......... ive got a banging headache and feel sick............ just need some time out love donnaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted January 26, 2009 <'> <'> <'> <'> I will give you a hug.You sound fed up. Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 thanku karen really needed that xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Enid Report post Posted January 26, 2009 So sorry to hear, poor you ,lack of sleep sends us all crazy!!!!! so here are some <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> . hope you fell better soon. Enid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
something_different Report post Posted January 26, 2009 ((dooday)) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skye Report post Posted January 26, 2009 <'> I've been down lately too. I hope things start looking up for you! <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 thanku everyone really apreciate all yr support still got a banging headache and feel totally and uterly exhausted love donnaxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 think i need a very large drink.............. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bikemad Report post Posted January 26, 2009 <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 thanx bikemad Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stella63 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 Hi Donna Share a few of these <'> <'> <'> and if your head will cope with it, more than a few of these I blame the government for telling me that I shouldn't have my large glass of wine in the evening - it just makes me rebel and have MORE!!!! Hope you feel better soon. I discovered some snowdrops in the garden this afternoon and it made me cry. Stella xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 thanx stella come and av a large one with me or 2 i love snow drops love donnaxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 <'> <'> <'> <'> some more hugs for you Donna, so sorry to hear things are tough and that you are poorly and stressed. Sometimes it just feels there is no escape doesn't and when you don't get enough sleep everything else seems doubly bad Thinking of you.... Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 thanku clare xxxxxxx we need to meet up and get sloshed love yer loads xxxxxxxxxxx love donnaxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGeek Report post Posted January 26, 2009 <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 thanx sciencegeek xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NickyB Report post Posted January 26, 2009 Donna <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Sounds like you need some TLC - is there anyone who can help you with the kids and maybe give you some time to yourself ? I hope you're feeling better soon Take care Nicky <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted January 26, 2009 One from me too <'> Hope you all feel better soon. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 26, 2009 thanku xxxxx no just me boohooooo mums got probs of her own at the moment xxxxxxxx so i will plod on thanku everyone love donnaxxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted January 27, 2009 <'> <'> <'> Hope you catch some zzzz's soon - sleep deprivation makes all problems appear ten times worse, I think. K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted January 27, 2009 Hope you are having a better day ~ <'> <'> <'> Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 27, 2009 had a nitemare 2day got a lot of family probs still ,,,,, and reece has been a nitemare really kicked off on the bus big time ..... pulled chunchs of my hair out .. and scratched bit and pinched me ...............and sreamed and kicked me all the way home ..................... wanted to goto my mums after scool but i explained to him that we cudnt as we needed to get the bus home like we normally doooooooo........... i just dont know wat to do as i cannot do that on the bus again ive got a banging headache and just feel like saying f*** to everything love donnaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JsMum Report post Posted January 27, 2009 Hi DOODAY. Well I can certainly give you dozens of these <'> <'> <'> <'> and more on the way, bless you hun, your certainly doing too much and ontop getting no sleep, is there anyway you could look into some sort of support, I would ring the SS tomorrow, even if its a couple of hours support with your son. It really does sound like you need time out for a wee bit. I am going to send you some more of these for now. <'> <'> JsMum Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 27, 2009 thanku jsmum for all yr advice and support also very touched by yr lovely pm love donnaxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
something_different Report post Posted January 27, 2009 Shame u live so far away or i wld come and babysit for u Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 27, 2009 thanxu something different xxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stella63 Report post Posted January 27, 2009 Hi Donna, Something Different said what I'd been thinking to myself - like you there is little or no support or respite available, we have no family and friends don't always understand how it is - maybe we should look at a forum based respite service, depending on where we are located - the odd evening or afternoon or whatever where we could step in and help each other out. Just a thought cos I know I can't get away from it at all - OJ has all his OCD rituals at bedtime and it is really difficult asking someone to babysit who doesn't have the awareness that we have. Sorry, rambling now....... hope you're feeling less stressed... think <'> <'> and more and I will say on record that I am not a complete alcoholic, but it certainly does help at this time of night!!!! Stella xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 27, 2009 thanx stella xxxx it def does help i had a very nice large vodka and coke a little while ago lol the respite idea sounds a gr8 idea but u wud hav to be really careful and u wud av to get to know people more before it cud go ahead xx hichic sorry been on the drink anybody like to join me in forum drink i cud deffinetly do with a bit of company at the mo love donnaxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted January 27, 2009 Sorry to hear things are getting worse Hopefully our chat tonight will give you a few ideas to move things forward. Take care (and don't drink too much !) Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NickyB Report post Posted January 27, 2009 hichic sorry been on the drink anybody like to join me in forum drink i cud deffinetly do with a bit of company at the mo love donnaxxxxx Hi donna <'> I lost it with DS tonight - I don't often lose my temper but I'm really struggling with his rituals at the mo So, I'm joining you in some of these Hope you get some sleep tonight Nicky <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 28, 2009 thanku everyone for yr support xxxxxxxxxxxx nicky so hope u r having a better day 2day love donnaxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NickyB Report post Posted January 29, 2009 thanks donna. Much better today - it was just one of those days hope u r feeling better too <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 30, 2009 hi nicky glad u r feeling ait better xxxx im feeling abit better thanx still got a lot of family worries but have had to realise i cant sort everything out and cant change the world..... they know im here if wen they need me xxxxx reece has been alot better bless him xxxxx love donnaxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JsMum Report post Posted January 30, 2009 This is for Reece <'> for been a great lad for his mum, Orr bless him, I am relieved to hear he has improved and things are getting better, Dooday24 here is one from me too as I think your doing a fab job and a great mum. <'> JsMum <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 30, 2009 thanku so much jsmum xxxxx i really appreciate your help and support xxxxx hope things r ok with u xxxxx love donnaxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted February 2, 2009 hi everyone still aving a really hard time at the moment ........... just dont know wat im doin anymore feel like im sinking......... have just written a letter to the headmaster cos kids av had a lot of time of this term ..... but dunno wat else im supposed to do........... just cant keep this up as sooooooo nackered and emotional keep crying all the time av made an appointment to see gp but cant see her til next thurs booooohooooooooooo and got an apointment with reeces phsychologist fri will try those numbers u gave me jsmum just feel totally like ive lost control over everthing at the moment and im not coping with anything sorry to b down in the dumps love donnaxxxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pookie170 Report post Posted February 2, 2009 Aw, Donna, don't apologise- I wish I had some good, practical advice, but I can only offer a measly <'> ! Hope things get easier soon..... Esther x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted February 3, 2009 <'> Boho x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted February 3, 2009 Donna, Sorry to hear life is so tough. Some more <'> <'> from me as well. hang in there. K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NickyB Report post Posted February 3, 2009 Donna I really wish there was something I could do Sending you lots of love and hugs <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Nicky x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
