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Kirstie we are calling him Luca Jon,unusual but not too unusual!!The 3 girls cant wait to have a little brother,he is going to be so mothered the poor boy will never want to leave home!! And yes she looks tiny in her uniform,i wish i could show you all a picture of her,so sweet,we cant imagine how she will get her dinner or get ready for PE,she is still such a baby,i hate them having to grow up I never worried about the other girls starting school,Indias certainly turned a few of my hairs grey

i think i could safely say i am definatley in the very overcooked and well risen muffin club

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so sorry you have lost your dad bid i can imagine how painful it is,im very close to my dad and cant imagine life without him,i know its not quite the same but i lost a very much loved little dog when i was younger and i used to think i saw him every where,it was very upsetting but sort of comforting too as i was scared i would forget what he looked like,hope things get a bit easier for you <'>

Thanks flora!Rest?what is that pray tell?? i cant actually do anything much but rest at the moment as i have a condition where my pelvis has seperated and im pretty much in constant pain will hopefully ease once the baby is born,typical male causing all the problems Hi,thanks,she is looking forward to school but she is nervous about eating her dinner there!!she does understand about the baby and she is very excited about him coming,its been an awful long wait for her (and me) hope your well,bet your pleased its nearly time for him to be here?

Hi kathryn Thanks,i will be sure to let you know how she gets on!Hope everything goes well your end too

im trying to add a ticker to my signature,ive tried using HTML code BB code and ezcode but none seem to work?where am i going wrong?

hello everyone,hope your all well,havent been around much,pregnancy is tiring me alot!!Is everyone dreading or looking forward to the new term next week?India is starting primary school,i feel a bit anxious about it but i think she will be ok,im just hoping she learns to deal with her rituals and routines so they dont interfere too much,im hoping she learns to cope in a group a bit more than she does at the moment,she is having a specialist autistic teacher go in once a week and senco will be involved even though she is not statemented yet,so fingers crossed all goes well,wishing you and all your children a good term,i hope they all manage to get through without too many struggles and difficulties x

India is regularly a dog Lately she will only answer to the name Lauren Have to say though my NTgirls used to do stuff like this and so did my NT nephew,can remember years ago telling him off in a big department store and he had reigns on at the time,he then dropped to his knees and started to bark at me

Have a lovely time!

Good luck sojourned!!what an exciting thing to be doing,wish i was coming with you!!

indias are pink and red

We finally saw the psycholgist last week,and she wants me to try and desensitize Indy from 1 of her compulsions and go back and see her on the 11th,we chose to work on the everything having to be on the right hand side compulsion,all that has happened so far is that she has swapped her love of right hand side for love of left hand side Do you think if she wants me to do this with her she may want her to have some sort of behaviour therapy?do you think that helps?what would it involve?

I wasnt disputing that fact elaine,im disputing the fact that she said the autistic boy could help his behaviour,i reiterated over and over again that i too believe in boundaries and discipline,what i was trying to say was dont just look at an incident and make a solid conclusion about it,if everyone did that everytime my daughter had an incident then she would have the naughty child label slapped all over her and then what help is that?

Aw kathryn that made me feel quite sad I must add that we do have a lovely big nuclear plant in amongst our tranquility

I think it is her daughters fathers step child i got the feeling she started the thread to have a ###### about the mother and the boy,she didnt reckon on me and lizzie coming along!!

we live by the sea too and i love it,feel i have a bit of freedom and sanity there,will show you some pics of last time we went.. View of the beach from my left... http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v496/sidders/drigg014.jpg View of the beach from my right... http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v496/sidders/drigg003.jpg our little campfire.. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v496/sidders/drigg001.jpg me looking rather windswept and interesting... http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v496/sidders/drigg015.jpg And this was the view as we drove home,we really do live in a beautiful part of the country,i dont get to appreciate it enough... http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v496/sidders/drigg021.jpg Tranquility at its best dont know why that wouldnt work,have just left the links on

ok thanks i have handled it pretty well i think,its difficult to explain it to you without you being able to read the whole thread,i absolutley agree with our children needing boundaries and discipline but this woman is coming across as the kid just needs a good slap,its people like that that make daily living a struggle,ignorance.

its too long to copy and paste but basically someone is ranting about a child with autism not behaving in public,she says she has nothing personal against this child but so obviously does,il copy and paste some of it... Can someone tell me. Im sorry if i sound thick. If a kid, say about 5 or 6 has autism, what does this mean? characteristics, symptoms etc..... .... ok ive read that.........can i ask a question tho and im going tosound really nsty.....if a kid had autism.....and they are, nasty to other kids, wanting all the time, isnt it bettre to tr and NOT spoil them and teach them manners or would you just go along with it?...... basically someone i know has a boy who is about 6 or 7, npt sure, but she keeps him off school for no reason, he pushed my daughter and i got told, he cant help it, im sorry but he should!! sorry if im nasty but this kid gets away with anythinhg, they were sitting in a beer garden on saturday, and becuase he couldhave coke in a glass bottle instead of a glass ?2.60 for the bottle, 80p for a glass, he kicked off. went mental swearing and allsorts so she bought him it. Surely she should try explain and not give in. Maybe im wrong.....dunno.. hate it tho when holly spends time with him she picksw things up and i try not to tell her off for it but its hard.... i know i keep trying to tell here but if this girl doesnt tell her boy that its bad then holly just seems to think it is right.....am i making sense? its actually hollys dads gfriend. so she is there every weekend for two and abit days.......... i tried that at the weekend, he just keeps saying, he cant help it he cant help it! well yeah, im not saying that this girls son has NOTHING wrong with him but i dont feel that is an excuse to be bad mannered etc....he has to learn sometime thathe cant get his own way forever. she is, even tho i dont want to sound like my mother, making a rod for her own back as it were excuse me but i dont have anything personally about this kid. i just feel taht yes, ok he maybe cant be punished, hate that word, like a normal child but he still shouldnt be able to get away with pushing kids 3 years younger than him over etc. __________________ ok, you have a child with autism ok, and this child who lets say this example, he is 7, he wals over and pushes over a 3 y ear old for no reason. .....he shouts and sewears at his mum for no reason. you wouldnt just sit there would you......thats what im getting at. they are basically her comments up til now and my blood is at boiling point.

http://www.mumszone.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?t=14016 can you read this thread,please come and back me up because im shaking with rage

That is amazing lorraine <'>

SNAP!!!

Good luck hev,be brave,it will be worth it