adamsmum

I give my old man bad looks all the time and he's never and i mean never took all the boys out. Exactly how did you do this. Just think if he went out with kids i could get some real sleep for the fierst time in weeks

I know ther is a SN teacher in another class as she mentiond she thout K was AS. Nether thout to get her involved. I dont know if i should put the problem in writing as i dont wont to say the wrong thing and upset the teacher. I was going to aproach the head as i know him well but then thout she may see this as me going behind her back.

Hope you get on. It will be really interesting to see how they deal with the toilet issue. The food is ok with Adam it's more getting him to stop eating. Sounds good and it would be if he stopped eating his bed. Enyway my fingers are crossed for you

I love reading Harry Bowling. I love books based on victorion times and war torn britan. So i would say it's not always true.

Sorry not much to be done. The trouble is no matter whot you do it could couse a fight. I called s workers about my brothers kids. My family dident need to be told it was me thay worked it out All hell broke loos. Thay new it was the right thing to do and the kids got help my brothers on drugs so i had no choice. The trouble is i no longer get to see the kids as ther mum left my brother. Of course it was all my thout. I would still do it but you have to decide for your self is it worth it if it go's wrong. Only you know but good luck

I dont wish to couse offence im not so good at explaining my self. My 8 year old has been learning about the therd would all very good but he dose not have the same understanding as his class mates so he gets very muddeld up. It's got to the point that i worry when i take him out. the things he sayes like if he sees somone on the telly who's not white he will say that persons got no clean water or that persons going to die. Thay also got told about war so know he thinks a lot of men are bad men of course this could couse a scene. i dont know whot to do. I know i will have to see the teacher but she thinks she knows it all and that he's doing realy well. Of course i wont him to learn about the therd would and so on but i think it needs a difrent aproach or maybe wait till he's older. Eny ideas on whot i should do sorry about spelling no time for spell check

<'> <'> Sorry i dont have much advice. familys can be hard work can't thay. I dont get on well with my mother. We speak but i try not to mention half my family as it couses fights. For my boys safty i dont see my brothers and this couses a lot of problems. Is there a relative who could help or a family freand. Or could you send a note. Im shore you thout of this but i will keep fingers crossed and hope you come up with somthing

how do you find time to write yourself all those cards.

My health visitor always finds something to moan about. We had one for another of the boys she was exelent. I wish she was still working she was always happy to help. So far my new one has complained c was gaining to much weight then not enouth then i was giving to much breast milk apparently it was delaying his development I don't take notice of her now

<'> <'> It will end one day. I know of a lad of 14 he's not long got thru this. Sorry i haven't got eny advice mine are still small. I suppose iv got it all to come

Well done really happy for you. Engoy some well earned rest if you can

My Mum has ask me not to let K have it. I must admit if offerd i would try it and see if it helps him. I think if it did it would make life better for us all. Thers a lot in the press but i dont tend to read it. I do have trust in my boys pead not to give me bad advice. He offerd k meds ones for bed wetting but wornd of realy bad side effects and said it wasent a drug he liked to give out. We decided to put up with bed wetting

K is 8 and can still have an ocasional acident. he wets bed most nights. Adam is not ready to try yet and he is 6.

We are so bored. It's raining. We can't go out as all had colds. Was going to bake but baby in bad mood and DH is his usual grumpy self. I cant take a week of this I think my head will explode from the stress. Cant take Adam to places he dosent know or places that are busy so i'm really stuck It seems silly as we have a huge garden but cant use it because its so wet Oh well enouth moaning playdoh time i think eny other ideas welcome

We just spoke to k. He said he dident do it. I think he's a bit miffed by all the fuss

I'v been waching this is it realy the last one I dident realise must be a bit slow. thats reely sad i enjoy this program

This post was from my DH i think his problem is the lack of help given to those that keep their kids at home. Maybe if they spent more on helping they wouldn't need to pay so much on foster care. On the report they where offering up 3 times more for SN kids. Altho i agree thy cost more to look after i think some of this could be put to other things. Also there are those few that do make money on fostering i no of a few personally its sad and most foster parents are fantastic carers and rely do deserve some praise.

sorry meant to be 20.not 40.

We put ?20 on side for milkman. 1hr later it was gone. DH serched house but could not find it so he replaces it thinking he must of made a mistake. Well a couple of hrs later it was gone again. this time we really got worryed searching house thinking we had both lost the plot. Then i rememberd K had a new wallet so went up to take a look. He was fast asleep in bed with said wallet. I prised wallet from hand and was shocked to find 2 very neatly folded ?20 notes safely tucked inside. Well i had to laugh poor lad has no idea of value he meant no harm. At least old mans not senile I think i will have to have words with K i just hope he listens.

I feel sorry for him. The poor man. I bet he's verry upset it's not like it was realy his fout and he did have a good point

Thanks for that. It realy do's explain Kieran and a lot off his problem I realy don't know whot to make of it but i think i will re do the test when i get printing paper and take it to pead i just hope he will look at it

Just don the test TM put on and it said Kieran scord 159 and this couldbe servere pdd I know this is not devenat but whot is it and should i print it of for pead. Should i be worrid about this

Im sorry it dident go well. I hope things pick up for you. Its sad but it seem a lot of gairls go haywire for a bit thay think thay know best till it all go's wrong then thay wont there mum. Hang in there and keep talking it will pick up. You sound like a good mum so she will come round in the end

My mum had a problem like this with my sister when she was younger. she was hell to live with rude and somtimes vielent some of the names she used would make even the most wouldly peaple turn pink. She would not pay her way and expected mony of my mum even thoe she had a job and was 18. The only thing my mum could do was stand her ground. Make it clear you love her you wont her at home but let it be her choice dont argu with her it do's no good. My mum had rules and no matter how hard it was she made it clear she wonted them followed backing down dosent do them eny favours in the long run. My sister is now at home with a very good job and doing realy well for herself thay also get on well so all the tears wher worth it sorry about the spelling the kids are home so no time for spell check Hope you sort it out soon Alison