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      Depression, Mental Health and Crisis Support   06/04/2017

      Depression, Mental Health and Crisis Support   Depression and other mental health difficulties are common amongst people on the autistic spectrum and their carers.   People who are affected by general mental health difficulties are encouraged to receive and share information, support and advice with other forum members, though it is important to point out that this exchange of information is generally based on personal experience and opinions, and is not a substitute for professional medical help.   There is a list of sources of mental health support here: <a href="http://www.asd-forum.org.uk/forum/index.php?showtopic=18801" target="_blank">Mental Health Resources link</a>   People may experience a more serious crisis with their mental health and need urgent medical assistance and advice. However well intentioned, this is not an area of support that the forum can or should be attempting to offer and we would urge members who are feeling at risk of self-harm or suicide to contact either their own GP/health centre, or if out of hours contact NHS Direct on 0845 4647 or to call emergency services 999.   We want to reassure members that they have our full support in offering and seeking advice and information on general mental health issues. Members asking for information in order to help a person in their care are seeking to empower both themselves and those they represent, and we would naturally welcome any such dialogue on the forum.   However, any posts which are deemed to contain inference of personal intent to self-harm and/or suicide will be removed from the forum and that person will be contacted via the pm system with advice on where to seek appropriate help.   In addition to the post being removed, if a forum member is deemed to indicate an immediate risk to themselves, and are unable to be contacted via the pm system, the moderating team will take steps to ensure that person's safety. This may involve breaking previous confidentiality agreements and/or contacting the emergency services on that person's behalf.   Sometimes posts referring to self-harm do not indicate an immediate risk, but they may contain material which others find inappropriate or distressing. This type of post will also be removed from the public forum at the moderator's/administrator's discretion, considering the forum user base as a whole.   If any member receives a PM indicating an immediate risk and is not in a position (or does not want) to intervene, they should forward the PM to the moderating team, who will deal with the disclosure in accordance with the above guidelines.   We trust all members will appreciate the reasoning behind these guidelines, and our intention to urge any member struggling with suicidal feelings to seek and receive approproiate support from trained and experienced professional resources.   The forum guidelines have been updated to reflect the above.   Regards,   The mod/admin team


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  1. Do I tell my boss?

    Nicely put; graphically interesting
  2. Antidepressants are evil read more (it's a German page, but the article is in English)
  3. What book are you reading at the moment?

    Back to: Revolutions (see post #780) - halfway through by now (and with this book, you know exactly where the middle is)*. * you are suggested to read from both ends at the same time
  4. Do I tell my boss?

    At work, I have told no one. I'm sceptical about "coming out" in this respect.
  5. Books on ASD suggestions please.

    Chris Slater-Walker, Gisela Slater-Walker; An Asperger Marriage; ISBN: 1843100177; Ashley Stanford; Asperger Syndrome and Long Term Relationships; ISBN: 1843107341; Luke Jackson; Freaks, Geeks & Asperger Syndrome: A User Guide to Adolescence; ISBN: 1843100983; Jean Kearns Miller; Women from Another Planet?: Our Lives in the Universe of Autism; ISBN: 1410734315; Karen E. Rodman; Asperger's Syndrome and Adults... Is Anyone Listening? Essays and Poems by Partners, Parents and Family Members...; ISBN: 1843107511; Eileen Riley-Hall; Parenting Girls on the Autism Spectrum: Overcoming the Challenges and Celebrating the Gifts; ISBN: 1849058938; Rudy Simone; Aspergirls: Empowering Females with Asperger Syndrome; ISBN: 1849058261; Jennifer McIlwee Myers; How to Teach Life Skills to Kids with Autism or Asperger's; ISBN: 1935274139; Charlotte Moore; George & Sam: Two Boys, One Family, and Autism; ISBN: 0312374240; Paul Collins; Not Even Wrong: A Father's Journey Into the Lost History of Autism; ISBN: 1582344787; Dawn Prince-Hughes; Songs of the Gorilla Nation: My Journey Through Autism; ISBN: 1400082153; Deborah Lynn Jacobs; The Same Difference; ISBN: 0880924659;
  6. What book are you reading at the moment?

    Did a binge re-reading of C.S.Forester's Hornblower books. By chance I found: Neil Gaiman, The Ocean at the End of the Lane. Only a novel, but, well, good to read ...
  7. Parent to a newly diagnosed 10 year old boy

    That's exactly what my parents allowed me, luckily, to do some 33 years ago.
  8. What book are you reading at the moment?

    Re-read: Italo Calvino: Il cavaliere inesistente (The Nonexistent Knight)
  9. What book are you reading at the moment?

    Jack Richardson: Jack in the Navy (re-read) Mark Z. Danielewski: Only Revolutions
  10. Parent to a newly diagnosed 10 year old boy

    Some autistics are able to maintain a "facade" during the day (at school, at work, among strangers) and totally let go at home. The higher the stress level when "out", the more disturbing the actions when in "sheltered" surrounding. Of course, you have to protect your younger son. You may want to read: Freaks, Geeks & Asperger Syndrome: A User Guide to Adolescence by Luke Jackson and: George & Sam: Two Boys, One Family, and Autism by Charlotte Moore
  11. Sexuality discussion

    demisexual, too?
  12. Western/white culture - a controversial thread

    Here's Rickard Jonasson's take on the original question: http://www.twogag.com/archives/3480
  13. What book are you reading at the moment?

    Just finished re-read of Ulysses (started one week ahead of this year's Bloomsday).
  14. Who's into comics?

    I'm very much into Belgian comics. So, Asterix, Gaston Lagaffe, Spirou, the Smurfs, Tintin, but there's also the authors Flix or Ralf König. (look them up!)
  15. Why is Harry Potter so popular?

    The story's got several layers, some of which JKR herself didn't realize, it seems. My favourite "helper" here is http://www.redhen-publications.com/(there's a sub-section about the "Potterverse"). Harry seems to be written so he appeals also to girls so there's many more (potential) readers than if it were a "boys-only" story.