badonkadonk Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Good afternoon all Just wanted to take this opportunity to give a little public shout-out to my luverly boyfriend. It seems somewhat appropriate to do this on here given that this is where we first met (in a virtual sense anyway) and saying it in front of you guys will show him that I really, really mean it (I hope!) So without further ado.... HAPPY SIX MONTH ANNIVERSARY NEIL! I love you. Very, very much, you make me super duper happy I can't believe how much my life has changed since I met you, I was doing ok before, but now for the first time I feel like I'm actually living my life. The best thing about being with you is that not only are you stupidly handsome, brilliantly funny and a frickin genius but you are also my best friend, my best Aspie friend. The fact that we are both Aspies is, for me, one of the extra special bonuses of our relationship. You understand me, instantly, I love the fact that you hate going out socialising as well, that you too like eating the same food, on the same nights, week in week out. I love the fact that we do the housework on almost the same day each week, and we do it in the same order everytime! I love that you shout at the news in the morning just as much as I do and get frustrated with the idiots in the world! I love how, despite us both disliking hugs off other people and hating eye contact, we are always hugging and looking at each other. And I love how we can't lie to each other, and how once I've gotten past my layers of low self-esteem and lack of confidence I know I can almost believe you when you tell me you love me and that I'm a nice person. Only almost, I'm still working on it Anyway, better stop before I make everyone else vomit! Thanks to everyone on the forum for helping this place to exist, if I hadn't of found this forum and felt welcome enough to start rambling on at people (and on, and on) I would have never have shouted at Neil to stop moaning or started to take the mickey out of him for being a girly Northerner and thus plant the beginnings for what has happened over the last six months Emily xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lya of the Nox Report post Posted October 1, 2007 :whistle: ooh, made me giggle huge congrats to u both xxxxx <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
llisa32 Report post Posted October 1, 2007 - I'm loving that you're all mushy and 'loved up'!! Made for very nice reading after a yeuch day! Huge congrats!! and long may it continue <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNeil Report post Posted October 1, 2007 The best thing about being with you is that not only are you stupidly handsome, brilliantly funny and a frickin genius but you are also my best friend, my best Aspie friend. Awww...shucks (are you sure that you haven't got the wrong person BTW? I still don't get this handsome/funny/genius thing...more like geeky/geeky/geeky when I look in the mirror. I do agree with the stupid bit though ) You're my best friend too (as well as being the person that I'm going to spend the rest of my life with). The one person I can yammer on to, spout inane gibberish at, open up to, repeat the same eight stories too and generally be myself with. You've always got time to listen, you always offer advice (good advice), you pick people up when they're down, you love routines, you love things to be neat and tidy, you make me laugh out loud, you get me to do things I wouldn't normally do, you're smart, you make people happy, you know everything there is to know about music and dance, you're always, always, always honest... I'm so proud to be with you, to be here for you, to be the person that you can open up to and that you want to be with me that you've made me the happiest sour-faced northerener in the world : thumbs: In short...I lurve my Emily <mwah> <mwah> <mwah> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bard Report post Posted October 1, 2007 <'> <'> <'> I've just got home...and it's lovely to read this. Keep it up you two, be as mushy as you like! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nic m Report post Posted October 1, 2007 I love this you have both cheered me up a great deal, have a great anniverary and i hope you have many more. Nicola Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tally Report post Posted October 1, 2007 HAHAHA, yeah, I'm gonna be sick now, but I'm glad you're happy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KarenT Report post Posted October 1, 2007 I am a cynical, hard-faced, miserable old goat and soppy stuff makes me hurl. But I've got a tear in my eye and I'm so happy for the both of you. Big congratulations to you, you soppy daft gits. Karen x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wishingwell Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Ah Bless!!!!!!!!!! It's love. Happy Anniversary Emily + Neil Wishing you many many more! What a lovely thread. Thanks for sharing it Emily. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lynden Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Awww bless you both !! Thats lovely Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Seriously, that's lovely news Boho Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted October 1, 2007 I,m a complete die hard romantic ..........I love mush ...........so this makes smiley .............I love a happy ending Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Yeuch! - doooooo hate mush so couldn't quite bring myself to read it, but that aside, a very sincere congratulations <'> and here's to the next six (and the next, and the next......) L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Awwwww.... congrats you two.... I'm filling up here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted October 1, 2007 how lovely was that,after my rubbish day that was brill reading that congratulations you two Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bard Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Yeuch! - doooooo hate mush so couldn't quite bring myself to read it I've read some seriously mushy posts from you, about your little man. It's LUUURRRVVVVE in any form. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Congrats to you both <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KateBall Report post Posted October 1, 2007 I hope we all get an invite - when the time comes Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted October 1, 2007 Awwwwwwww love it, love it, love it,..... soooooo romantic, love it, love it, love it ! So pleased you have found one another and congratulation to you both. Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted October 2, 2007 Lovely Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
badonkadonk Report post Posted October 2, 2007 Thanks for all the well wishes you lot! <'> It's really lovely to know that you're happy for us. We were meant to be doing the typical thing that a lot of couples do to celebrate their anniversary....go out for a meal....but we are both a bit under the weather with colds at the minute so we decided we couldn't be bothered with the stress of eating out and instead celebrated Aspie style! Eating Dominos pizza, wearing comfy trackie bottoms (ooo the glamour), watching James Bond on the projector. That's my kind of celebration! Emily xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Devon mum Report post Posted October 4, 2007 A bit of MUSH is good for the soul! It's great to see two people so happy in each others company. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oxgirl Report post Posted October 4, 2007 My biggest wish for my son is that he'll one day find his soul mate and that he'll be blissfully happy with her. You've given me a bit of hope, so thanks for that. Oh, and congrats. ~ Mel ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites