Frangipani Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Hi <'> <'> I know I have come and gone in the past - but this time is for good. I will miss you all very much and will think of you often. I want to thank you all for the friendship and support you have given me over the past few years. There have been so many times so thank you. The problem I am finding is its hard getting to know you all so well but, never being able to meet you - that makes it hard. I feel a bit isolated over here thats why I need to leave. It just gets harder and harder. I need real faces around me. iykwim. Thank you for all your love and support and kind words when I really needed to hear them. <'> <'> <'> Wishing you and your loved ones all the happiness you deserve. I am moving in so many area's of my life and I really need to leave all this behind so I can keep up with it all. I will miss you all <'> thank you for everything. Love Frangipani x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted January 14, 2008 <'> <'> Fran.I am sad that you are leaving us.We will miss you. Even if you feel that life is moving on and that you want to want to move on to other things you will always be welcome anytime you want to drop in here.Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
di30 Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Sorry to hear you are leaving hun......... , but please anytime you feel like it........come on just for a natter when you find some time, it will be good to know how your doing. We would like to wish you all the very best, and you will be missed by us all. So remember hun we are here for you always ok. . You take lots of care and keep well, also thanks to you too for what you have added on here which has been a great help and support to many of us here. Catch you soon then hun, take care. Di. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx <'> <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loobylou2 Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Take care Frang <'> <'> come back and let us know how you are all getting on will miss you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted January 14, 2008 (edited) Awwww Frang, will miss you so much, you've been such a lovely person to have around. Would be lovely if you could pop back now and again to say Hi, but understand that you need gto move on. Wishing you all the very best for the future, and thank you for being a friend. <'> <'> <'> Clare x x x Edited January 14, 2008 by Clare63 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brooke Report post Posted January 14, 2008 oh sorry your leaving <'> <'> I guess the time difference doesnt help. I hope you pop back now and then let us know how you and your family is. <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lya of the Nox Report post Posted January 14, 2008 thinking of you x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stressedmumto2 Report post Posted January 14, 2008 <'> Thinking of you too and just wanted to wish you all the best, take care Fran <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortcake Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Haven't had the change to chat to you alot but can see that you are always there with some helpful advice or a hug, you will be missed x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Don't be a stranger, Fran <'> Bid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted January 14, 2008 <'> sorry your leaving...........you could still pop into the batcave for the odd visit and light entertainment ...............hope that your daughter continues to get stronger <'> , take care best wishes and hugs suzexx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Hope all those new areas blossom for you <'> L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
annie Report post Posted January 14, 2008 We'll be here whenever you want to pop back in. Annie xx <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Frangipani, I hope all your dreams and plans for the future work out, for yourself and all your family, <'> <'> K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cmuir Report post Posted January 14, 2008 (edited) Hi That's a real shame you're leaving. My circumstances are perhaps different to yours, but I work full-time and therefore my daylight hours are limited when it comes to socialising with other like-minded people in the same/similar situation as myself (I have a son with AS). I do find the forum a godsend. In some ways, whilst it's nice to have direct human contact, it's always good that there's some distance too. You have to do what's best for you - just don't leave yourself without any support. You could always emigrate!? Caroline. Edited January 14, 2008 by cmuir Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mumble Report post Posted January 14, 2008 You could always emigrate!? Yeah!! do that, do that, and do it by July so you can come to our picnic (with the bubbly you mentioned!!) :bounce: I'll really miss you Frang - you've been a real source of support and inspiration during some of the harder times I've had this past year - thank you <'> I hope everything goes well for you and your children in the future And if you do fancy popping back, we'll be here, as insane as ever Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nic m Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Frang, i wish you all the luck and love in the world in whatever you choose to do. Enjoy your new experiences. nic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 14, 2008 im sorry too hear yr leaving.. but at the end of the day u need too do wats best 4 u hope things go ok and pop in and tell us u r ok wen u can lots of love and hugs donnaxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
David Matthew Baker Report post Posted January 14, 2008 All the best for the future. Good luck, David. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Take very good care of yourself Frang <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Wishing you & yours all the best Fran. I'll miss you <'> Feel free to put in a special guest appearance at our future parties Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frangipani Report post Posted January 14, 2008 (edited) Yeah!! do that, do that, and do it by July so you can come to our picnic (with the bubbly you mentioned!!) :bounce: I'll really miss you Frang - you've been a real source of support and inspiration during some of the harder times I've had this past year - thank you <'> I hope everything goes well for you and your children in the future And if you do fancy popping back, we'll be here, as insane as ever Thank you everyone, thank you for your prayers and wishes 'ditto' to you too! I will keep in touch. I could name you all but I would be typing for hours. When you have your meet-up's it would be a blessing to receive some piccies and updates. Or pm if you want to - please do - I would really love that. Mumble, you have been a wonderful friend too and I love your funloving spirit. I know you will excel in whatever you put your hands to. Emigrate would be a wonderful solution I would love to meet each and every one of you - nothing I love more than connecting with friends. I have always had a dream to move out of Accounting to do fine arts and creative writing. I am doing them all together this year and a mentor is guiding me to a passion to be an art therapist. Its all a step at a time - testing the water. I will be starting out as a volunteer for people with disabilities and physical handicaps that paint with their mouths and feet - I am looking forward to it. I know they will teach me a lot about painting / photography too. I know this will unlock my spirit and launch me into this career. Its the giving more than receiving - I am still trying to discover my style a bit of a mix of everything - forever evolving - blossoming. My dream would be to do a giant one I could run and dive and slip and slide over remember ProHart -wicked - critics say that isn't art, who are they kidding! I hope you keep contributing to the music thread I love the new and different styles popping in. The Batcave I always found that scary maybe one day Suze <'> never really had time but will put it on the to do list! Kathryn and Baddad a very big thank you to you both for your support through some very difficult times. Lya thank you so much too. All of you are truly truly awesome. I am going to miss you! terribly!!! All the very best to you all. Oh this is hard - leaving. Love Frangipani xx <'> Edited January 15, 2008 by Frangipani Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted January 14, 2008 make sure you keep popping in fran,i think you are brilliant <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lynyona Report post Posted January 14, 2008 Take Care Fran lynn Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frangipani Report post Posted January 15, 2008 Thank you so are you Hev <'> <'> Lynona <'> I just edited my second post - some very important additions. Fxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spectrummum Report post Posted January 15, 2008 sorry ive been missing good luck my friend may the world roll the right way for you shellxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kellyanne Report post Posted January 15, 2008 sorry you are leaving frang, take care x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
barefoot wend Report post Posted January 15, 2008 I'll very much miss your posts - best wishes to you and your family for the future. Barefoot Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flora Report post Posted January 15, 2008 Aaaah, don't go fran!!!! I know it must be frustrating being at the other end of the world, especially when people here are meeting up etc, but virtual is better than nothing don't you think? Hope you decide to stay, but if not then good luck to you and your family for now and the future. Best wishes Flora XX Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted January 15, 2008 oh franny dont go!!!!you will be soooooooo missed,i mea that <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elun1 Report post Posted January 15, 2008 <'> <'> Good luck Fran in whatever you do. I've always noticed how kind and supportive your posts are love Elun xxx <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
UltraMum Report post Posted January 21, 2008 Aw take care H. I'll be praying for you :pray::pray::pray: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frangipani Report post Posted January 22, 2008 (edited) Rather than repeat myself I just posted a response to all this in the Batcave Fran <'> Here is whatI wrote after reading the Batcave Oh Debs..... I cannot leave you lot. I sat hear till 4am last night and almost 3am tonight lots of laugh's lot of tears and lots of laugh's. To be honest I have been on an absolute downer since December 13 my cousins 10th Memorial and 25 January 08 will be my neighbours 1st memorial okay I have enjoyed a few glasses of wine. I miss them both so much it breaks my heart. They were both so young a beautiful. Bronwyn 34 and Kristen 38. I was running away from my pain. But reading the Batcave made me realise I don't want to loose you all as well. You have become a part of my life. I may not post as much but I can't leave you all You all make my day a happier day. Love Fran xx Edited January 22, 2008 by Frangipani Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted January 22, 2008 yay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted January 22, 2008 Batcave, eh? I hope you did some dusting while you were down there - it's been a while L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lya of the Nox Report post Posted January 22, 2008 oooooooh i am so pleased huge huge huggles for your bad time x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
witsend Report post Posted January 22, 2008 Fran - just caught up with this post and was about to say I'm sorry you're leaving but having read to here now I ccan say Yaaay you're staying!! Luv Witsend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted January 22, 2008 Sigh Glad you're staying <'> Bid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nic m Report post Posted January 22, 2008 Glad to hear from you nic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted January 22, 2008 Soooo pleased to hear you'll still be around. <'> <'> <'> Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
