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My son now 14 is exactly the same especially how many things i was going to buy ....now he doesnt come with me hardly ever...

I have been through everything you have mentioned my son is 13 has aspergers .....our outcome is home ed ......happier boy now hardly any meltdowns etc.................sometimes its the best ........................

I could identify with your experience ........nice to hear its getting better.......

My 13 year old son was very anxious about school .....we now home educate .....happier boy now no more meltdowns......bliss......sometimes youve got to think aout yourself and look at the big picture ................

My 13 year old son is the same he prefers typing .........bonus is he can type really fast..................

Change your GP ................theres good and bad.....

Im Scottish so Mince and tatties turnip ..............or haggis ......

It was her way to communicate with you this is how our loved ones do it......i had a similar dream about one of my friends who had died a few years ago i the dream i said 'i thought you were dead she said no look at me ....and she looked well.........i belive in the spirit world .............she knows what is going on in you life and is trying to guild you and reassure you.....its nothing to worry about just a nice thing to happen.......

I was offered Barnados ....someone to be with my son a sort of buddywho can come and visit etc......they said that wasalll they could offer..........

We had one of the cats come in cat flap with magpie in his mouth my hubby managed to rescue it he was a bit stunned .....talked to him put him in garden then he eventually flew away.......

Hi, Yes i know exactly what you mean happens to us all the time i have 3 cats and have a phobia about mice.............i rely on my husband to deal with it but i ahve to run somewhere in the hosue for safety and shake.......they havent doen it for a while as weve had alot of rain here in wales for last few weeks........i say the same stupid cat cant even catch it properly and they think their doing good as its suppose to be a Present ..........i even get premenision[spelling] dreams about the cat bringing a mouse in .................lol

Hi, What you just said sounds exactly like my grand daughter shes 5 it was like reading about her......my youngest hes 13 is dx with aspergers and my older 3 have traits .....i have alwyas said she has something ....she had delayed speech which is more inline with autism ....but fidgets all the time cant sit still climbs gets into danger doesnt see it......she is getting extra help at school ...she screams at times when out shopping i think its the noise and lights....i dont see much of her as they live in scotland now....but her mum was jsut the same runs in our family ......

My eldest son has an IT company ........and my youngest is heading that way.........other son finishes mechanical engineering apprenticeship in a few months .......

I would say definately i have 4 children all have traits to different degrees .....didnt realise it until recently ....but makes sense now....

Hi, We would definatetly not do boarding it would kill us and him........we,re in Wales..............we wont be doing medication.........when we sort out our home situation we will probably have a private tutor for his IT skills as this will be his future ...........same as his older brother......we are happy with the home education route he is a happier boy now due to not worrying endlessly about where and when hes getting taught ...it was rediculous........and i say again we live in wales......................

Hi, We did try the library for weeks but not suitable ...lots of people around hes got anxieties.....another thing they offered was an empty school....we feel let down and have other big issues going on at the moment andhaving ms as well cant risk making it worse by giving mmyself more stress......

Hi, The draft statement has been sent to us we dont see the point in going forward as they dont have anything in our area for our son and they wont give us home tuition back ie in the Home.......i think 1 and a halfyears with messing around going knowhere is enough for us to deal with .........

Hi, My son nearly 13 is dx aspergers he has been to school since april 2010 long story i have PMyou ....we had to de register him last monday as we dont have suitable schools nearby and he has high anxieities with anything to do with school.......draft statement had been sent to us last week .....but whats been offered is the same thing we had in the beginnning when we first registered him at school...........

Hi, Welcome back...........

Hi Dart, welcome to the forum...................

Hi, Welcome to the forum my youngest son is diagnosed with aspergers 7 months ago hes nearly 13 .....his education in last 2 years has been messed up we took him out of school had tutor now we are goign to deregister him .......good forum

Hi, Welcome to the forum great place to be ..............

Totally agree with you ..............ticking boxes and not reallly caring how your child feels been let down so much now dont expect anything good to happen have to deal with it ourselves...............................

Hi, Thinking of you and hope it all goes well ............

Hi and welcome it is overwhelming my 12 year son was dx aspergers last september my 3 older children have traits as well and grandaughter ......this site will set you in the right direction has been alot of help to me and still is.......