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sorry chic havent got a clue.....when paed made a referal to ss for us they told me that they couldnt do anything to help as autism / adhd not classed as a disability in our area......hopefully someone else will have some knowledge on this! <'>

Uranus i think...................

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm peanut crispies sound yummy, how do you make them? glad you are having a bit of calm, i hope that it is continuing today! i usually find that once things get really bad with el, we have a calm period for a while, before the storm builds up again......

oh Sam moan away chic!!! <'> i'm sorry to hear that you had such a horrible shopping trip, els bells is also on risperdal and i dread when the dose no longer seems to help......is anything else going on to upset him? hope you are all having a much better day today.......

no.....but she knows i hate loose teeth and insists on wobbling them in front of me to do my head in.....

thanks for that chic!

hey chic! <'> sorry to hear that things are really difficult for you lately, i hope things look up soon, hopefully once k is statemented he might calm down......sending you loads of positive vibes..... a snot ridden BFB

would he be prepared to earn some money by doing jobs in the house for your parents? yhen it wont seem like you are giving in....i make el earn her pocket money....if she doesnt keep her room tidyish, walk one of the dogs or put her washing away she doesnt get her money......and if she wants a bit extra i make her do some more jobs....i know i'm a total

oh chic, <'> know that feeling.... but hopefully if it gets their fingers out their .......maybe its a good thing......hang on in there!!!

oh no chic, he really is wanting to go down the police station again isnt he.... i also think you should persevere with the respite, i know it must feel more worrying wondering what he is getting up to when you arent with him, but they probably will use it against you if you tell them not to bother..... <'>

oh bh what stunning advice, how did you ever manage without them? you could not have prevented his behaviour, nor did you cause it.....sounds to me like you handled it the best way you could! <'> what was J doing immediately before you got ready to go? was he already in a funny mood or did he just switch?

what about a pic of a housebrick for the cover? or lots of bricks (maybe slightly different colours and sizes, as they aren't all the same are they) to represent different contibutors?????

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el's on equasym xl (xl means the 8 hr version) she takes it every day as we find that life is much better for both of us when el has taken it.....

oooooooooooooo can i have a nutty nine bar pleeeeeeeese?

what a relief i thought i had finally lost the plot....oo love the new look and sos to hear you been having problems!

ear flaps is a cracking shot!!! and love the tree pics too!!!

oh dear have had so many worst jobs.....putting pond weed in bunches, daffodil picking (in torrential rain and mega winds, and the field is very close to the cliff edge), grading potatoes (at three am in freezing weather), packing mobile phones, scrubbing toilets.......take your pick! best job? being el's mum.......ha ha ha ha ha no not really havent found it yet......

what a good idea to have box of special toys! el has got toys downstairs that i let her cousins etc play with and her scooby van is causing major problems.....i will try this and see how it goes!

it doesnt sound mean at all! make the most of it, quiet times dont last long do they!

big hugs to you chic, its good that he's missing you now and i hope he is prepared to listen to you on sunday. <'>

a big well done to you for getting on the phone and putting them straight!!! am very proud of you, how dare this woman bully your son like this, dont feel sorry for her, how unprofessional is she to treat a child like this? poor j i hope he is feeling a bit better, i think you both deserve some chocolate... <'>

el still mixes up her he/she's and mum/dad phrases.....

wow thats fantastic!!!!!!!!! he must be sooo clever!!!! keeping everything crossed that he has a good interview!!!!

cant offer any more advice, but good luck i hope you find somewhere better for him. <'>