Bard Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Not going to be on for a while, just had a phonecall to say that a friend has been killed in a car crash. She's got two boys under 7. All hands on deck now, going to be busy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mumble Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Really sorry. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aro Report post Posted November 27, 2007 How terrible! A x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oxgirl Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Oh dear, so sorry to hear that, Bard. <'> <'> <'> Don't forget to look after yourself as well, though. <'> ~ Mel ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted November 27, 2007 So very sorry Bard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted November 27, 2007 <'> <'> Very sorry.That is a huge shock and big responsibility for you.Look after yourself.Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted November 27, 2007 What dreadful news, I am so sorry Bard. Thinking of you at this sad and devastating time. <'> <'> <'> Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mossgrove Report post Posted November 27, 2007 So sorry to hear this. Take care Simon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elun1 Report post Posted November 27, 2007 <'> <'> <'> So sorry to read this Bard Thinking about you Elun xxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lorryw Report post Posted November 27, 2007 So sorry, what a dreadful thing to happen. Take care Loraine Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
annie Report post Posted November 27, 2007 <'> Bard <'> Thinking of you. Annie xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JsMum Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Tragic news, devastating about the kiddies, makes me hug mine that bit more, its going to be really hard, want you to know we will be thinking about you and you know where we are if you need to talk, I dont really know what I can say to help you, just that I am really shocked. Hugs and TLC. JsMum Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stressedmumto2 Report post Posted November 27, 2007 So sorry to hear this, such sad news for the lil ones <'> My heart goes out to all of you, Take care <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortcake Report post Posted November 27, 2007 So sory to hear your news my thoughts are with you, I agree with you j'smum going to go give my 2 a hug and count my blessings x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frangipani Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Bard <'> <'> <'> So sorry <'> I lost my cousin who was my best friend in similar circumstaces and she left behind two beautiful boys 7 & 4 it still breaks my heart watching her eldest standing there at the rear of the hirst looking at her coffin. It will be 10 years on December 13 since she died. I remember it was harder walking into the shops and seeing all the Christmas decorations - luckily I finished my Christmas shopping early that year as I had to avoid the shops till after Christmas for fear of drowning in tears. My neighbour last January left young boys too - why I am mentioning this is they released 100 orange balloons into the air as the hirst drove away they looked up at the balloons and said 'bye bye mummy' this was much better - I wished we had done similar for my cousins boys Just letting you know you are welcome to pm if you need to talk <'> <'> <'> <'> Be gentle with yourself <'> love Fran xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bard Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Thank you people, but I'm fine. Sadly this isn't the first or even second time this has happened, so our community is pretty good at pulling together. Lost a friend 2 years ago, and her children are still being looked out for, remembered and helped by different people for different things. Boy gets taken to football matches, girl got her prom dress sorted, littley has a home made cake for her birthday donated by friends with different talents and strengths. That's how you show your friendship in my book, by being a substitute when needed if the real thing is no longer available, and for as long as the support is needed or wanted. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krystaltps Report post Posted November 27, 2007 <'> <'> <'> <'> Can't think of any words. Take care of yourself too, Bard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
llisa32 Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Really sorry about your news Bard <'> Will be thinking of all of you <'> Take care x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forbsay Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Thinking of you all. Forbsay xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
allie Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Thinking of you <'> >< Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nic m Report post Posted November 27, 2007 Take care Nicola Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted November 27, 2007 All of the above... Take care L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted November 28, 2007 You're a wonderful friend. Thinking of you. xxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted November 28, 2007 <'> Bid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted November 28, 2007 bard <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted November 28, 2007 Sorry to hear this, Bard. <'> K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brooke Report post Posted November 28, 2007 <'> <'> sorry to hear this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kellyanne Report post Posted November 28, 2007 <'> <'> sorry to hear your news bard take care <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soraya Report post Posted November 28, 2007 How awfull, it makes you count your blessings. Take care <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
witsend Report post Posted November 28, 2007 Oh Bard <'> , come back when you get chance and if you need us <'> . So sorry. Luv Witsend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BusyLizzie100 Report post Posted November 29, 2007 Thank you people, but I'm fine. Sadly this isn't the first or even second time this has happened, so our community is pretty good at pulling together. Lost a friend 2 years ago, and her children are still being looked out for, remembered and helped by different people for different things. Boy gets taken to football matches, girl got her prom dress sorted, littley has a home made cake for her birthday donated by friends with different talents and strengths. That's how you show your friendship in my book, by being a substitute when needed if the real thing is no longer available, and for as long as the support is needed or wanted. Bard, you and your friends are lovely, lovely people. This will mean so much for those children, now and when they become grown-ups. Your comments above brought tears to my eyes. My Mum died when I was young and I'd have given anything to know that someone out there still cared. Bless you. Stay strong. Lizzie xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loobylou2 Report post Posted November 30, 2007 Really sorry to hear the news Bard. Take care of yourself too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
