Amanda32 Report post Posted December 23, 2007 (edited) I just like to say to you all that many thanks to you for all the advice in the past about my son, appreciated <'> <'> I wont be on here any longer and just wanted to let you all know My son died 2 days ago not sure what from yet. All he had was a stomach bug and there is alwasy alot of wish or what ifs at the moment. We have been told that its nothing we could of done. We had already taken him to the GP same day and given something to put the salt etc back into his body. He got worse so rang a doctor but they said to take him to the hospital as the GP in the mornigntold us if it got worse to do this. On the way to the hospital which they was expecting us and awful thing happened in out car. Not going to say but it something I cant get out of my head. I thing he died by me with my husband driving and my daughter with us too. We called a ambulance on the side of the road but by the time we got to the hospital there was not hope. If we had called a ambulance for him at home it wouldn't of made any difference. The GP in the morning wouldn't been able to see an underlying problem so not her fault either. Personally it looks like something as burst and fluid as gone through his system and posioned him wont know as theres a postmortem being done. Everything was going really well for him. He was in a unit in secondary school and we were told he was the brightest in the class and he would of gone to a mainstream class soon for english. The consultant we seen recently ruled out the ace procedure as he was doing so well with his bowels. He even had his first pee standing up the other day as he kept saying it wouldn't work. My daughter and husband are not taking it that well think im the stronger one (well think im sometimes). Please everybody if you can watch DR Who on christmas day he was lookign forward to that and say a pray for him he was only 11. I am having DR Who music being played and hopefully get flowers made into a tardis. Im trying to been clam so I can sort all this out as my husband cant talk about it. We have lots of support so we are ok there. My daughter as been sleeping in our bed (shes 14 lol) but she needs us now. Take care all and god bless. Love Amandaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Edited December 23, 2007 by Amanda32 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
llisa32 Report post Posted December 23, 2007 So very very sorry Amanda <'> <'> <'> I shall light a candle for your son when we go to church to remember our lost loved ones And we shall watch DR Who thinking of you all <'> I hope you all find the strength to get through this - especially at this time of year Will be thinking of you all - take care <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flora Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda <'> <'> As one parent to another, my heart goes out to you and your family. I can't even begin to understand how sad and traumatic this must be for all of you. I think you were extremely brave and strong to be able to come on here and tell us of this very sad and tragic event. Thank you for letting us know. My thoughts and prayers will certainly be with you and for your son. Take care. FloraXXXXXXX Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rhianydd Report post Posted December 23, 2007 I am so sorry to hear your sad news <'> >< <'> >< you are in my thoughts and prayers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rainbow queen Report post Posted December 23, 2007 <'> >< <'> >< <'> >< deeply sorry for you and your family im going to church today i will say prayers for your family please take care and look after yourselfs may god be by your side in this time of need love rq xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
summertime Report post Posted December 23, 2007 I'm so sorry for your loss and can not even begin to imagine the heartache it must bring, my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Summer xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ASue67 Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Am so sorry............. don't really know what to say. Sending you lots of <'> and love xxxxxxxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jools Report post Posted December 23, 2007 i am so sorry <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nic m Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Thinking about you all.I hope you find some peace in your hearts and minds. Love Nicola Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
annie Report post Posted December 23, 2007 <'> Amanda <'> I am so very, very sorry. I couldn't begin to understand how difficult it must be for you all, especially at this time of year. My thoughts are with you and your family. Love, Annie xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted December 23, 2007 So sorry BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stressedmumto2 Report post Posted December 23, 2007 I'm so very sorry <'> My thoughts are with you and your family <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cat Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Peace be with you all <'> <'> <'> Cat Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kirstie Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda, i am so so sorry hun, i am about to pm you. Kirstie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kellyanne Report post Posted December 23, 2007 amanda <'> I'm so sorry to hear about your son. Not sure what else to say Take care of each other KA x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frangipani Report post Posted December 23, 2007 <'> <'> Amanda <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> No words could express how you must be feeling right now hun. I wish I was there in person to give you a hug. Just to do something, just listen. I pray that you have all the love and support around you, you need right now. <'> So sorry <'> Frang xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
carrieq Report post Posted December 23, 2007 I am so sorry, words just aren't enough. We will be watching Dr Who and I will be thinking of you and your family. So glad you have family support but remember to be kind to yourself too. Carrie Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brook Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda & family, I am so so so sorry to hear of your very sad news... You are in my thoughts and prayers.. and I will be thinking of your son when we watch Dr Who...... Brook <'> >< <'> >< Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bard Report post Posted December 23, 2007 I can't imagine anything worse than the loss of a child, I'll light a candle for you and those left behind. So sorry. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda, No words seem adequate - I am so sorry and can't imagine what you must be going through. We will certainly be watching Dr Who on Christmas day. I will be thinking of you and your husband and daughter and praying that you will find the strength you need. K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KarenT Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Very, very sorry Amanda. Take care of yourself and your family. Karen x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda, words seem so inadequate....so very sorry <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted December 23, 2007 oh amanda , I,m so so sorry for you and your family.What you all must be going through, I can,t imagine <'> , my two youngest say prayers every night and we will pray for you all now and in the coming weeks.suzex <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spats Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda, I am so sorry to hear your tragic news. Sending you and your family lots of love. Kat xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
di30 Report post Posted December 23, 2007 We are all very saddened and shocked to hear of this very sad news. Amanda and family, our hearts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. Its very difficult to find the words. We are all here for you anytime ok sweetheart. Thinking of you. <'> <'> <'> (((hugs))) for you darling. God bless. Di and family. xxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karin Report post Posted December 23, 2007 (edited) amanda word will never express what you are going through i send my condolences to you and your family at this very difficult time and take care of each other Edited December 23, 2007 by karin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lynden Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Oh Amanda I'm so sorry - I dont know what to say - I dont think there's anything you can say when someone loses a child :-(. My thoughts are with you and your family. Lynne x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
barefoot wend Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda Will think of you when watching Doctor Who. Barefoot Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aro Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda, I'm so very, very sorry to hear your tragic news. Will be thinking of you. A xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LizK Report post Posted December 23, 2007 I am so sorry to hear this Much love <'> Lx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lorryw Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda, I cant even begin to understand what you are going through at the moment and I am so sorry for the loss of your little boy. Love Loraine xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted December 23, 2007 So very, very sorry. Yes we will be watching Dr Who, & will be thinking about you xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spectrumlady Report post Posted December 23, 2007 no words can express adequately - we'll be watching Dr. Who God bless <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BusyLizzie100 Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Amanda, My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of each other. Lizzie xxx <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hev Report post Posted December 23, 2007 amanda,im very very sorry for your loss <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bluefish Report post Posted December 23, 2007 thinking of you and your family. So so sorry x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mossgrove Report post Posted December 23, 2007 So very sorry. My thoughts are with you Simon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KateBall Report post Posted December 23, 2007 Nothing I say can possibly make any difference but I will watch Dr Who and I will be thinking of you then - and saying a little prayer for you all. xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elun1 Report post Posted December 23, 2007 <'> Im so very sorry Thinking and praying for all of your family Elun xxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ajgrist Report post Posted December 23, 2007 So sorry, i wish there was something i could say or do to make you and your family feel better.We will be thinking of you over christmas, and we will watch Dr Who and say a little prayer. lots of hugs xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites